From Fr. Jude Botelho:
The first reading from the book of Sirach is a lesson on humility. While pride
is the deadliest of the seven deadly sins, because it is founded on falsehood
which destroys ourselves and those around us, humility is perhaps the most
characteristic of Christian virtues. The humble person finds favour with God
not because that favour is a reward for humility, but because humility, like
faith, means abandoning self-assertion, all trust in oneself, and allowing God
to act where we can do nothing.
Humility is Truth
Humility Speaks in Silence!
Learning from the Great
Albert Cylwicki in ‘His Word Resounds’
Inflated Ego
Some time ago in Florida, the St Petersburg Times carried an interesting story about Don Shula, the coach of the Miami Dolphins, vacationing with his family in a small town in northern Maine. One afternoon it was raining and so Shula, his wife and his five children decided to attend a matinee movie in the town’s only theatre. When they arrived the house lights were still on in the theatre, where there were only six other people present. When Shula and his family walked in, all six people stood up and applauded. He waved and smiled. As Shula sat down he turned to his wife and said, “We’re thousands of miles from Miami and they are giving me a standing ovation. They must get us on television all the way up here. Then a man came to shake Don Shula’s hand. Shula beamed and said, “How did you recognize me?” The man replied, “Mister, I don’t know who you are. All I know is just before you walked in the theatre manager told us that unless four more people turned up we wouldn’t have a movie today.”
Self-Effacing Humility
One type of humility is self-effacement – the habit of doing good deeds, or indeed just daily work, secretly and anonymously, without expecting thanks. A good example of that is a teacher, who in preparation for Thanksgiving Day asked her class of first graders to draw a picture of something they were thankful for. She thought of how little these children from their poor neighbourhood had. She imagined that most of them would draw pictures of turkeys or tables of food. But the teacher was taken aback with the picture little Douglas handed in -a childishly drawn hand. The teacher showed it to the class to decide whose hand it was. “I think it must be the hand of God that brings us food,” said one child. “A farmer,” said another, “because he grows the turkeys.” When the others were at work, the teacher bent over Douglas’ desk and asked whose hand it was. “It is your hand, teacher,” he mumbled. It was only then that she recalled that frequently at recess she had taken Douglas, a scrubby forlorn child by the hand. She often did that with the children; it had obviously meant a lot to Douglas. For herself, she was grateful for the chance, in whatever small way, to give self-effacingly to others.
Truly Humble
THE WORD:
The woman did not yell back. She looked softly at the girl, and said, “One day you’re going to want to apologize to me. And I won’t be here.”
A passenger on that bus writes of the encounter:
“While the rest of us ignored the girl’s cries, the woman did not. She likely saw herself in the girl. The woman knew how the story ended. ‘It’s not worth it’ meant ‘I have been there. Trust me. I know your tears.’ It was humanity in front of our eyes.
More often than we realize, the “banquet” of today’s Gospel
can be a simple offering of support, empathy and encouragement. At God’s
banquet table, sometimes we are the guest: we are welcomed and are served by
God in the guise of compassionate and understanding family, friends and
sometimes strangers. And sometimes we are the waiter, enabling others to
share in the bounty of God’s table. Jesus asks all who would be his disciples
to embrace a spirit of faith-centered humility that enables us to see beyond
appearances and labels in order to welcome one another as brothers and sisters,
children of the God who is Father of every one of us.
"You don't say!" replied the old man.
"Yes, sir, and if you wish, I can send you some illuminating books."
"Very well," said the old man, preparing to leave as the train came to a stop. "You may send them to this address." He handed the young man a card, which read:
Paris
"Him I know not," the Bishop replied. "Who comes?"
The herald, a bit shaken, replied, "Charles the Great, a good and honest man of the earth."
"Him I know not," the Bishop said again. "Who comes?"
The herald, now completely crushed, responded, "Charles, a lowly sinner, who begs the gift of Christ."
I am the foremost of sinners. 1 Timothy 1:15
In my weakness is my strength: 2 Cor 12/7-9
Poor windows copper coins
Lowly handmaiden
Humility is opposed to a pride that shows no respect for others, but tends to dominate, to exercise power for its own sake, to be unconcerned for the rights of others. It is a virtue which sees service of others as the meaning of authority.
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From Fr Tony Kadavil's Collection:
1) Cardinal Léger’s option for the poor: Most Rev. Paul-Émile Léger served as Archbishop of Montreal from 1950 to 1968, and was elevated to the cardinalate in 1953 by Pope Pius XII. He was one of the most powerful men in Canada and within the Catholic Church. He was a man of deep conviction and humility. Then on April 20, 1968 he resigned his office and, leaving his red vestments, crosier, miter, and pallium in his Montreal office, disappeared. Years later, he was found living among the lepers and disabled, outcasts of a small African village. When a Canadian journalist asked him, “Why?” here is what Cardinal Léger had to say: “It will be the great scandal of the history of our century that 600 million people are eating well and living luxuriously and three billion people starve, and every year millions of children are dying of hunger. I am too old to change all that. The only thing I can do which makes sense is to be present. I must simply be in the midst of them. So, just tell people in Canada that you met an old priest. I am a priest who is happy to be old and still a priest and among those who suffer. I am happy to be here and to take them into my heart.” (http://www.rockies.net/~spirit/sermons/a-or09-2-keeping.php Is that your calling? Is it mine? Probably not. Today’s Gospel says: “Although they cannot repay you, you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous.” (For a short biography of Cardinal Leger visit: http://www.sulpc.org/evsulpc_leger_en.php) (Barry Robinson)
2) The humble Gandhi: One man who took Jesus seriously was Mahatma Gandhi. Gandhi acknowledged that he had been much influenced by the Gospels and touched by the life of Christ. As he once remarked, “I might have become a Christian had it not been for Christians!” Gandhi did not lead the masses by standing like a monarch above them but by identifying with them and sharing in their circumstances. He identified himself with the half-naked rural masses by rejecting his attorney’s pants and coat and dressing himself with a loincloth and cotton shawl. While the other high caste Indian politicians were not willing to associate themselves with the untouchables, Gandhi chose to live, eat and march with the untouchables, and he gave them a new dignity and a new name. He honored them by calling them “harijans,” “the people of God.”
3) America’s “First Lady of Etiquette,” Emily Post, versus Jesus Christ: Luke 14 focuses on etiquette for guests and hosts at dinner parties. I thought I should see what the original “Miss Manners,” Emily Post, had to say on that subject. So, I consulted the twelfth edition of Emily Post’s Etiquette. I learned to kneel, kiss his ring, and address him as “Your Holiness” when having a private audience with the Pope. I learned replies to lunch invitations to the White House must always be handwritten and always returned that same day — and the answer is always, “Yes.” Emily Post was very specific about planning formal dinners. Seating charts were included showing which seats the guests of honor should get. Who’s seated next to whom is also important. Emily Post sums it up: “The requisites for a perfect formal dinner … are … Guests who are congenial, Servants who are competent, A lovely table setting — Food that is perfectly prepared … A cordial and hospitable host and a charming hostess” (and a good seating chart). And there is another source we can turn to on how to throw a perfect party. The source is Scripture. And the “etiquette expert” is Jesus himself. In today’s Gospel, Jesus gives guidance on party protocol while attending a formal dinner. When God is throwing a party, all the “right” people will be there — that is everyone who responds to (God’s) invitation. But seated next to the host (Jesus) in the places of honor are not the dignitaries, the celebrities, the distinguished people of position and prominence, but rather the poor, the hurting, the outcast — people who have distinguished themselves only by their need.
4) Christian Archibald Herter (March 28, 1895 – December 30, 1966) was a United States politician and statesman, governor of Massachusetts, and Secretary of State 1959–1961. When Christian Herter was governor of Massachusetts, he was running hard for a second term in office. One day, after a busy morning chasing votes (without lunch), he arrived at a church barbecue. It was late afternoon and Herter was famished. As Herter moved down the serving line, he held out his plate to the woman serving chicken. She put a piece on his plate and turned to the next person in line. “‘Excuse me,” Governor Herter said, “do you mind if I have another piece of chicken?” “‘Sorry,” the woman told him. “I’m supposed to give one piece of chicken to each person because you are going to get other food items also from other servers.” “‘But I’m starved, and I love chicken,” the governor said. “‘Sorry,” the woman said again. “Only one to a customer. “Governor Herter was a modest and unassuming man, but he decided that this time he would throw a little weight around. “‘Do you know who I am?” he said. “I am the governor of this state!” “‘Do you know who I am?” the woman retorted. “I’m the lady in charge of the chicken. Move along, mister.”
33 Additional anecdotes
1) “It’s perfectly all right, Madam!” A truly humble man is hard to find, yet God delights to honor such selfless people. Booker T. Washington, the renowned black educator, was an outstanding example of this truth. Shortly after he took over the presidency of Tuskegee Institute in Alabama, he was walking in an exclusive section of town when he was stopped by a wealthy white woman. Not knowing the famous Mr. Washington by sight, she asked if he would like to earn a few dollars by chopping wood for her. Because he had no pressing business at the moment, Professor Washington smiled, rolled up his sleeves, and proceeded to do the humble chore she had requested. When he was finished, he carried the logs into the house and stacked them by the fireplace. A little girl recognized him and later revealed his identity to the lady. The next morning the embarrassed woman went to see Mr. Washington in his office at the Institute and apologized profusely. “It’s perfectly all right, Madam,” he replied. “Occasionally I enjoy a little manual labor. Besides, it’s always a delight to do something for a friend.” She shook his hand warmly and assured him that his meek and gracious attitude had endeared him and his work to her heart. Not long afterward she showed her admiration by persuading some wealthy acquaintances to join her in donating thousands of dollars to the Tuskegee Institute. (Our Daily Bread). (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
2) “Sir, I am a Corporal!” During the American Revolution, a man in civilian clothes rode past a group of soldiers who were busy pulling out a horse-drawn carriage stuck in deep mud. Their officer was shouting instructions to them while making no attempt to help. The stranger who witnessed the scene asked the officer why he wasn’t helping. With great dignity, the officer replied, “Sir, I am a Corporal!” The stranger dismounted from his horse and proceeded to help the exhausted soldiers himself. When the job was completed, he turned to the corporal and said, “Mr. Corporal, next time you have a job like this, and don’t have enough men to do it, inform your commander-in-chief and I will come and help you again.” Too late, the proud Corporal recognized General Washington. Today’s readings challenge us to be truly humble. (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
Humility is Truth
William Carey, the great missionary of India, was a very humble man despite his
great linguistic skills and botanical achievements. He had translated the Bible
into several Indian languages. The intellectuals and men of high positions in
Calcutta recognized him. On one occasion the Governor General of India invited
him to a party. As they sat around the table, one of the invitees asked another
whether this was the Carey who was once a shoemaker. Carey overheard this
comment and turned to the person and said, in all humility, “No, Sir, I was
only a cobbler.”
John Rose in ’John’s Sunday Homilies’
In today’s Gospel Jesus is at a meal in the house of one of the leading
Pharisees. He notices the undignified scramble for the places of honour and is
moved to comment on what he sees through a parable. The parable looks like
a bit of prudential advice on how to behave at a dinner party so as to avoid
embarrassment. But since it is a parable one need not take it at face
value, as a piece of worldly wisdom or even as a lesson in humility. It deals
rather with an aspect of one’s relationship with God. God in the person of
Jesus Christ is inviting all peoples to the messianic feast. The only way to
respond to the invitation is to renounce any claim or merit of one’s own. The
Pharisees expected the best seats in the banquet for keeping the Torah, but
like the outcaste, they have to learn that salvation is an unmerited gift
–freely given and humbly to be accepted. Our acceptance at the heavenly banquet
will depend not on our merit or good deeds but on our acceptance of others now.
Humility in a Christian sense is not a purely passive virtue; like faith, to
which it is closely akin, it is highly active.
Humility Speaks in Silence!
For a lady traveller it was a pleasant journey by train from New York
to Philadelphia as there was only one more passenger besides her. Her
co-passenger was rather a heavy-set man. But her joy of comfort was disturbed
when the man lit a cigar and started smoking. The lady deliberately coughed and
showed an unpleasant face. Nothing worked. He continued to smoke. Then she
blurted out, “You might be a foreigner. But don’t you know that there is a
smoking car ahead. Smoking is prohibited here. The man quietly threw his cigar
out of the window and maintained his equanimity. When the conductor came to
examine the tickets the lady passenger realized with horror that her
co-passenger was the famous General Ulysses Grant. She had boarded his private
car by mistake. As the lady made a hasty exit the General did not even look at
her so as not to embarrass her. He turned his head and smiled only after the
lady was out of sight. –Great humility is displayed by stronger men. Humility
comes from strength.
G. Francis Xavier in “Inspiring Stories”
Learning from the Great
Albert Cylwicki in ‘His Word Resounds’
Inflated Ego
Some time ago in Florida, the St Petersburg Times carried an interesting story about Don Shula, the coach of the Miami Dolphins, vacationing with his family in a small town in northern Maine. One afternoon it was raining and so Shula, his wife and his five children decided to attend a matinee movie in the town’s only theatre. When they arrived the house lights were still on in the theatre, where there were only six other people present. When Shula and his family walked in, all six people stood up and applauded. He waved and smiled. As Shula sat down he turned to his wife and said, “We’re thousands of miles from Miami and they are giving me a standing ovation. They must get us on television all the way up here. Then a man came to shake Don Shula’s hand. Shula beamed and said, “How did you recognize me?” The man replied, “Mister, I don’t know who you are. All I know is just before you walked in the theatre manager told us that unless four more people turned up we wouldn’t have a movie today.”
Mark Link in ‘Sunday Homilies’
Self-Effacing Humility
One type of humility is self-effacement – the habit of doing good deeds, or indeed just daily work, secretly and anonymously, without expecting thanks. A good example of that is a teacher, who in preparation for Thanksgiving Day asked her class of first graders to draw a picture of something they were thankful for. She thought of how little these children from their poor neighbourhood had. She imagined that most of them would draw pictures of turkeys or tables of food. But the teacher was taken aback with the picture little Douglas handed in -a childishly drawn hand. The teacher showed it to the class to decide whose hand it was. “I think it must be the hand of God that brings us food,” said one child. “A farmer,” said another, “because he grows the turkeys.” When the others were at work, the teacher bent over Douglas’ desk and asked whose hand it was. “It is your hand, teacher,” he mumbled. It was only then that she recalled that frequently at recess she had taken Douglas, a scrubby forlorn child by the hand. She often did that with the children; it had obviously meant a lot to Douglas. For herself, she was grateful for the chance, in whatever small way, to give self-effacingly to others.
Harold Buetow in ‘God Still Speaks: Listen!’
Truly Humble
An arrogant American musician once visited the house of the great composer
Beethoven, sat down at the piano and proudly began to play Beethoven’s Moonlight
Sonata. When he had finished, he asked the concierge, “I suppose many
celebrities come here?” “Yes,” replied the man, “Pederewski was here last
week.” The American continued, “And did he play the piano too?” “No,” said the
old concierge, “He said he wasn’t worthy.” Ignacy Jan Pererewski was a
brilliant Polish pianist, composer, orator, writer, social worker and
philosopher who eventually became Prime Minister of Poland in 1919. He was
deeply humble and is a model of what today’s readings exhort us to be.
Francis Gonsalves in ‘Sunday Seeds for Daily Deeds’
From the Connections:
THE WORD:
Gospel humility (a key theme of Luke’s Gospel) is not a
religious sado-masochism motivated by self-hatred or obsequiousness. As
taught by Christ, humility is an awareness of who we are before God; of our
constant need for God and our dependence on God for everything; of the
limitlessness of God’s love and forgiveness. The Jesus of the Gospel,
“who, though in the form of God, humbled himself . . . accepting even death on
the cross” is the perfect model of the humble servant of God.
In today’s Gospel, Jesus calls us to embrace the attitude of
seeking out the “lowest places” at table for the sake of others, promising that
at the banquet of heaven God will exalt such humility. In teaching us to
invite to our tables “those who cannot repay you,” Jesus challenges us to
imitate the love of God: doing what is right, good and just for the joy of
doing so, not out of a sense of duty, self-interest or the need to feel
superior or in control. “Nothing can so effectively humble us before
God’s mercy as the multitude of his benefits,” wrote Francis de Sales, “and
nothing can so deeply humble us before his justice as our countless offenses
against him.”
HOMILY POINTS:
Gospel-centered humility realizes that we are not the center
of all things but part of a much larger world, humility that is centered in
gratitude for all the blessings we have received as a result of the depth of
God’s love and not because of anything we have done to deserve it. Faced
with this realization, all we can do is to try and return that love to those
around us.
Humility is the virtue of suspending our own wants and needs
in order to consciously seek God in all people and experiences. True
humility is centered in the things of God – love, compassion, mercy,
selflessness, tolerance and forgiveness.
The spirit of humility as taught by Jesus is not the
diminishing of one’s self but the realization that we share with every human
being the sacred dignity of being made in the image and likeness of God.
To be humble as Christ teaches humility is to see one another as God sees us
and to rejoice in being ministers to them in their joys and struggles.
God’s banquet table includes places of honor for every poor,
hurting, confused soul. At the Gospel banquet table, we are both guests and
servers: We welcome and are welcomed as children of the same God and Father; as
sons and daughters of God, we share equally in the bounty of this table; as
brothers and sisters in Christ, we are responsible for the protection and
maintenance of the vineyard given to us by our loving Father.
Strangers on a bus
On a cold January morning, a city bus rumbled through the
downtown streets. A teenage girl sat in the last row of seats. She
was talking on a cellphone, crying.
“But I don’t understand why,” she cried into the
phone. “Baby, please. Come on, don’t do this . . . Please! I
don’t wanna break up!”
The other passengers on the bus looked straight ahead,
unwilling eavesdroppers on this conversation, feeling terrible for this poor
girl who was being dumped on the phone.
As the bus came to a stop, an older woman, bundled in a long
black coat and wool hat, stood up and grabbed her bags. Pausing for a
moment before getting off, she turned to the crying girl.
“He’s not worth it, honey,” the woman said.
The girl flashed her eyes at the woman. “Shut up!” she
yelled. “Just mind your business! Shut up!”The woman did not yell back. She looked softly at the girl, and said, “One day you’re going to want to apologize to me. And I won’t be here.”
A passenger on that bus writes of the encounter:
“While the rest of us ignored the girl’s cries, the woman did not. She likely saw herself in the girl. The woman knew how the story ended. ‘It’s not worth it’ meant ‘I have been there. Trust me. I know your tears.’ It was humanity in front of our eyes.
“I often hope that I am like that woman: wise and willing to
reach out to a stranger . . . [but] more often, I can identify with the
girl. It’s easier to be closed off, defensive. It’s easier to
deflect kindness.”
[From “Strangers on a Bus” by Sarah Kess, The Boston
Globe Magazine, July 14, 2013.]
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Did you hear about the minister who said he had a wonderful
sermon on humility but was waiting for a large crowd before preaching it?
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1. A young man in a
Train
A young man entered the coach of a train in a small
university town in France. The ink was scarcely dry on his newly acquired
diploma.
As the train sped off for Paris, he took his seat in the
rear of the coach near an elderly gentleman who seemed to be dozing. As the
train suddenly lurched, a string of rosary beads fell from his hand. The young
man picked up the rosary and handed it to the elderly gentleman with the
remark, "I presume you are praying, sir?"
"You are right. I was praying."
"I am surprised," said the young fellow,
"that in this day and age there is someone who is still so benighted and
superstitious. Our professors at the university do not believe in such
things," and he proceeded to "enlighten" his elderly
fellow-passenger.
The old man expressed surprise and amazement.
"Yes," continued the young man, "today
enlightened people don't believe in such nonsense.""You don't say!" replied the old man.
"Yes, sir, and if you wish, I can send you some illuminating books."
"Very well," said the old man, preparing to leave as the train came to a stop. "You may send them to this address." He handed the young man a card, which read:
Louis Pasteur
Director of the Institute of Scientific ResearchParis
2. A real Pane!
Somebody was called in to substitute the famous Billy
Graham at the last minute. He was aware of the awesome responsibility
of substituting such a man. As he sat in this huge church pondering he looked
up and noticed the beautiful stain glass windows and a little piece of
cardboard stuck in where a piece had broken. So in his sermon he compared
himself with that piece of cardboard to fill in.
After the service, as he shook hand with the members, a
woman came to him and said, “Preacher, I just wanted you to know that you were
not the cardboard. You were a real pane!”
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3. The funeral of
Charlemagne
I like the story historians tell about the funeral of
Charlemagne. Charlemagne was the greatest Christian ruler of the early Middle
Ages. After his death a mighty funeral procession left his castle for the
cathedral at Aix. When the royal casket arrived, with a lot of pomp and
circumstance, it was met by the local bishop, who barred the cathedral
door.
"Who comes?" the Bishop asked, as was the custom.
"Charlemagne, Lord and King of the Holy Roman Empire,"
proclaimed the Emperor's proud herald."Him I know not," the Bishop replied. "Who comes?"
The herald, a bit shaken, replied, "Charles the Great, a good and honest man of the earth."
"Him I know not," the Bishop said again. "Who comes?"
The herald, now completely crushed, responded, "Charles, a lowly sinner, who begs the gift of Christ."
To which the Bishop, Christ's representative, responded,
"Enter! Receive Christ's gift of life!"
The point, of course, is that in God's eyes, we're all
equally needy. Charlemagne, Mother Teresa, you and me. None of us will ever be
"good enough" to force entrance into the presence of God.
Alex Gondola, Jr., Come As You Are, CSS Publishing Company
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4. Professor
Washington
A truly humble man is hard to find, yet God delights to
honor such selfless people. Booker T. Washington, the renowned black educator,
was an outstanding example of this truth. Shortly after he took over the
presidency of Tuskegee Institute in Alabama, he was walking in an exclusive
section of town when he was stopped by a wealthy white woman. Not knowing the
famous Mr. Washington by sight, she asked if he would like to earn a few
dollars by chopping wood for her. Because he had no pressing business at the
moment, Professor Washington smiled, rolled up his sleeves, and proceeded to do
the humble chore she had requested. When he was finished, he carried the logs
into the house and stacked them by the fireplace. A little girl recognized him
and later revealed his identity to the lady.
The next morning the embarrassed woman went to see Mr.
Washington in his office at the Institute and apologized profusely. "It's
perfectly all right, Madam," he replied. "Occasionally I enjoy a
little manual labor. Besides, it's always a delight to do something for a
friend." She shook his hand warmly and assured him that his meek and
gracious attitude had endeared him and his work to her heart. Not long
afterward she showed her admiration by persuading some wealthy acquaintances to
join her in donating thousands of dollars to the Tuskegee Institute.
Our Daily Bread.
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5. Inventor Samuel
Morse
Wakefield tells the story of the famous inventor Samuel
Morse who was once asked if he ever encountered situations where he didn't know
what to do. Morse responded, "More than once, and whenever I could not see
my way clearly, I knelt down and prayed to God for light and
understanding."
Morse received many honors from his invention of the
telegraph but felt undeserving: "I have made a valuable application of
electricity not because I was superior to other men but solely because God, who
meant it for mankind, must reveal it to someone and He was pleased to reveal it
to me."
Tim Hansel, Eating Problems for Breakfast, Word
Publishing, 1988, pp. 33-34.
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6. The humble man feels
no jealousy
It was John Riskin who said, "I believe the first test
of a truly great man is his humility. I do not mean by humility, doubt of his
own power, or hesitation in speaking his opinion. But really great men have a
... feeling that the greatness is not in them but through them; that they could
not do or be anything else than God made them." Andrew Murray said,
"The humble man feels no jealousy or envy. He can praise God when others
are preferred and blessed before him. He can bear to hear others praised while
he is forgotten because ... he has received the spirit of Jesus, who pleased
not Himself, and who sought not His own honor. Therefore, in putting on the
Lord Jesus Christ he has put on the heart of compassion, kindness, meekness,
longsuffering, and humility." M.R. De Haan used to say, "Humility is
something we should constantly pray for, yet never thank God that we
have."
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7. Henry Augustus
Rowland,
professor of physics at Johns Hopkins University, was once
called as an expert witness at a trial. During cross-examination a lawyer
demanded, "What are your qualifications as an expert witness in this
case?"
The normally modest and retiring professor replied quietly,
"I am the greatest living expert on the subject under discussion."
Later a friend well acquainted with Rowland's disposition expressed surprise at
the professor's uncharacteristic answer. Rowland answered, "Well, what did
you expect me to do? I was under oath."
Today in the Word, August 5, 1993.
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I am the least of the apostles. 1 Corinthians 15:9
I am the very least of all the saints. Ephesians 3:8I am the foremost of sinners. 1 Timothy 1:15
In my weakness is my strength: 2 Cor 12/7-9
Poor windows copper coins
Lowly handmaiden
Manger
We'll receive the blows, Gandhi, and humiliate them
Weakness/inability/disability of the called in the Bible
Never be haughty to the humble. Never be humble to the
haughty. Jefferson Davis.
Mother Teresa was once asked, "How do you
measure the success of your work?" She thought about the question and gave
her interviewer a puzzled look, and said, "I don't remember that the Lord
ever spoke of success. He spoke only of faithfulness in love. This is the only
success that really counts."
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8. A young American
student
On a visit to the Beethoven museum in Bonn, a young American
student became fascinated by the piano on which Beethoven had composed some of
his greatest works. She asked the museum guard if she could play a few bars on
it; she accompanied the request with a lavish tip, and the guard agreed. The
girl went to the piano and tinkled out the opening of the Moonlight Sonata. As
she was leaving she said to the guard, "I suppose all the great pianist
who come here want to play on that piano."
The guard shook his head. "Padarewski [the famed Polish
pianist] was here a few years ago and he said he wasn't worthy to touch
it."
Source Unknown
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9. President Lincoln
Lincoln once got caught up in a situation where he wanted to
please a politician, so he issued a command to transfer certain regiments. When
the secretary of war, Edwin Stanton, received the order, he refused to carry it
out. He said that the President was a fool. Lincoln was told what Stanton had
said, and he replied, "If Stanton said I'm a fool, then I must be, for he
is nearly always right. I'll see for myself." As the two men talked, the
President quickly realized that his decision was a serious mistake, and without
hesitation he withdrew it.
Source Unknown.
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10. George Washington Carver,
the scientist who developed hundreds of useful products from
the peanut: "When I was young, I said to God, 'God, tell me the mystery of
the universe.' But God answered, 'That knowledge is reserved for me alone.' So
I said, 'God, tell me the mystery of the peanut.' Then God said, 'Well, George,
that's more nearly your size.' And he told me." (Adapted from Rackham
Holt, George Washington Carver.)
George Washington Carver was an African-American scientist
who did some pioneering work on the lowly peanut. In January 1921, he was
called before the Ways and Means Committee in the House of Representatives to
explain his work. He expected such a high-level committee to handle the
business at hand with him and those who had come with him with dignity and
proper decorum. He was shocked when the speakers who preceded him were treated
very rudely. As an African-American, he was the last one on the list, and so
after three days of waiting, he finally got to make his presentation. He was
shocked when he noticed one of the members with his hat on and feet on the
table. When the Chairman asked him to take off his hat, the member said out loud,
"Down where I come from, we don't accept a black man's testimony. And
furthermore, I don't see what this fellow can say that would have any bearing
on the work of this committee." At this point, George was ready to turn
around and go home, but he said to himself, as he wrote in his autobiography,
"Whatever they said of me, I knew that I was a child of God, and so I
prayed 'Almighty God, let me carry out your will'". He got to the podium
and was told that he had 20 minutes to speak. Well, his presentation was so
engaging that he was granted several extensions until he had spoken for several
hours. At the end of his talk, everyone on the committee stood and applauded
him. (“More Telling Stories, Compelling Stories” by William J. Bausch).
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11. Sadhu Sundar Singh
When I saw Sadhu Sundar Singh in Europe, he had completed a
tour around the world. People asked him, Doesn't it do harm, your getting so
much honor?" The Sadhu's answer was: "No. The donkey went into
Jerusalem, and they put garments on the ground before him. He was not proud. He
knew it was not done to honor him, but for Jesus, who was sitting on his back.
When people honor me, I know it is not me, but the Lord, who does the
job."
Corrie Ten Boom, Each New Day.
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12. Pope Francis
Pope Francis recently demonstrated and defined the practice of humility.
He defined it not by his words. He defined it by his actions.
After his election to the papacy, he turned down the Vatican
limousine ride, instead taking the mini-bus back over to the hotel with his
brother Cardinals. At the hotel, he gathered his luggage, thanked each
member of the staff, and paid his own bill. He did not pass off these
seemingly meaningless tasks to a papal aide. It was not as if he had nothing to
do.
Francis, this humble servant of the Lord, remained Francis,
humble servant of the Lord, even after being elected head of the Roman Catholic
Church. His humility was not so much a series of individual actions or
practices as it was a way of life for him, as a Jesuit priest, archbishop,
cardinal, and pope.
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Humility and a passion for praise are a pair of characteristics
which together indicate growth in grace. The Bible is full of self-humbling
(man bowing down before God) and doxology (man giving praise to God). The
healthy heart is one that bows down in humility and rises in praise and
adoration. The Psalms strike both these notes again and again. So too, Paul in
his letters both articulates humility and breaks into doxology. Look at his
three descriptions of himself quoted above, dating respectively from around
A.D. 59, 63, and 64. As the years pass he goes lower; he grows downward! And as
his self-esteem sinks, so his rapture of praise and adoration for the God who
so wonderfully saved him rises.
Undoubtedly, learning to praise God at all times for all
that is good is a mark that we are growing in grace. One of my predecessors in
my first parochial appointment died exceedingly painfully of cancer. But
between fearful bouts of agony, in which he had to stuff his mouth with
bedclothes to avoid biting his tongue, he would say aloud over and over again: "I
will bless the Lord at all times; his praise shall continually be in my
mouth" (Ps. 34:1). That was a passion for praise asserting itself in the
most poignant extremity imaginable.
Cultivate humility and a passion for praise if you want to
grow in grace.
James Packer, Your Father Loves You, Harold Shaw Publishers,
1986.
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"Humility does not mean thinking less of yourself than
of other people, nor does it mean having a low opinion of your own gifts. I
means freedom from thinking about yourself one way or the other at all."
William Temple, "Christ in His Church"
At a reception honoring musician Sir Robert Mayer on his
100th birthday, elderly British socialite Lady Diana Cooper fell into
conversation with a friendly woman who seemed to know her well. Lady Diana's
failing eyesight prevented her from recognizing her fellow guest, until she
peered more closely at the magnificent diamonds and realized she was talking to
Queen Elizabeth! Overcome with embarrassment, Lady Diana curtsied and
stammered, "Ma'am, oh, ma'am, I'm sorry ma'am. I didn't recognize you
without your crown!"
"It was so much Sir Robert's evening," the queen
replied, "that I decided to leave it behind."
Today in the Word, April 3, 1992.
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Humility is perfect quietness of heart. It is for me to have
no trouble; never to be fretted or vexed or irritated or sore or disappointed.
It is to expect nothing, to wonder at nothing that is done to me, to feel
nothing done against me. It is to be at rest when nobody praises me and when I
am blamed or despised. It is to have a blessed home in the Lord where I can go
in and shut the door and kneel to my Father in secret and be at peace as in a
deep sea of calmness when all around is trouble. It is the fruit of the Lord
Jesus Christ's redemptive work on Calvary's cross, manifested in those of His
own who are definitely subject to the Holy Spirit.
Andrew Murray.
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From Fr. Tony Kadavil's Collection:
1) Cardinal Léger's option for the poor:
Most Rev. Paul-Émile Léger served as Archbishop of Montreal
from 1950 to 1968, and was elevated to the cardinalate in 1953 by Pope Pius
XII. He was one of the most powerful men in Canada and within
the Catholic Church. He was a man of deep conviction and humility. Then on
April 20, 1968 he resigned his office and leaving his red vestments, crosier,
miter, and pallium in his Montreal office, disappeared. Years later, he was
found living among the lepers and disabled, outcasts of a small African
village. When a Canadian journalist asked him, "Why? " here is what
Cardinal Léger had to say, "It will be the great scandal of the history of
our century that 600 million people are eating well and living luxuriously and
three billion people starve, and every year millions of children are dying of
hunger. I am too old to change all that. The only thing I can do which makes
sense is to be present. I must simply be in the midst of them. So, just tell
people in Canada that you met an old priest. I am a priest who is happy to be
old and still a priest and among those who suffer. I am happy to be here and to
take them into my heart." (http://www.rockies.net/~spirit/sermons/a-or09-2-keeping.php
Barry Robinson,) Is that your calling? Is it mine? Probably not. Today’s gospel
says: “Although they cannot repay you, you will be repaid at the
resurrection of the righteous."
2) The humble Gandhi:
One man who took Jesus seriously was Mahatma Gandhi. Gandhi
acknowledged that he had been much influenced by the Gospels and touched by the
life of Christ. As he once remarked, "I might have become a Christian had
it not been for Christians!" Gandhi did not lead the masses by standing
like a monarch above them but by identifying with them and sharing in their
circumstances. He identified himself with the half-naked rural masses by
rejecting his attorney’s pants and coat and dressing himself with a loin cloth
and cotton shawl. While the other high caste Indian politicians were
not willing to associate themselves with the untouchables, Gandhi chose to
live, eat and march with the untouchables, and he gave them a new dignity and a
new name. He honored them by calling them HARIJANS, "the people of
God."
3) America's "First Lady of Etiquette," Emily
Post, versus Jesus Christ:
Luke 14 focuses on etiquette for guests and hosts at dinner
parties. I thought I should see what the original "Miss Manners,"
Emily Post, had to say on that subject. So I did consult the twelfth edition of
Emily Post's Etiquette. I learned to kneel, kiss his ring, and address him as
"Your Holiness" when having a private audience with the Pope. I
learned replies to lunch invitations to the White House must always be
handwritten and always returned that same day -- and the answer is always,
"Yes." Emily Post was very specific about planning formal dinners.
Seating charts were included showing which seats the guests of honor should
get. Who's seated next to whom is also important. Emily Post sums it up:
"The requisites for a perfect formal dinner ... are ... Guests who are
congenial, Servants who are competent, A lovely table setting -- Food that is
perfectly prepared ... A cordial and hospitable host and a charming hostess"
(and a good seating chart). And there is another source we can turn to on how
to throw a perfect party. The source is Scripture. And the "etiquette
expert" is Jesus himself. In today’s gospel, Jesus gives guidance on party
protocol while attending a formal dinner. When God is throwing a party, all the
"right" people will be there -- that is everyone who responds to
(God's) invitation. But seated next to the host (Jesus) in the
places of honor are not the dignitaries, the celebrities, the distinguished
people of position and prominence, but rather the poor, the hurting, the
outcast -- people who have distinguished themselves only by their need.
*****
On a flight from Johannesburg, a middle-aged, well-off white
South African Lady had found herself sitting next to an African man. She called
the cabin crew attendant over to complain about her seating. “What seems to be
the problem Madam?” asked the attendant.
“Can’t you see?” she said. “You’ve sat me next to a kaffir.
I can’t possibly sit next to this disgusting human. Find me another seat!”
“Please calm down Madam.” the stewardess replied. “The flight is very full
today, but I’ll tell you what I’ll do. I’ll go and check to see if we have any
seats available in club or first class.” The woman cocks a snooty look at the
outraged black man beside her (not to mention at many of the surrounding
passengers also).
A few minutes later the stewardess returns with the good
news, which she delivers to the lady, who cannot help but look at the people
around her with a smug and self satisfied grin: “Madam, unfortunately, as I
suspected, economy is full. I’ve spoken to the cabin services director, and
club is also full. However, we do have one seat in first class”.
Before the lady had a chance to answer, the stewardess continued,
“It is most extraordinary to make this kind of upgrade, however, and I had to
get special permission from the captain. But, given the circumstances, the
captain felt that it was outrageous that someone be forced to sit next to such
an obnoxious person.” With which, she turned to the African man sitting next to
her, and said: “So if you’d like to get your things, Sir, I have your seat
ready for you in first class up at the front...” At which point, apparently the
surrounding passengers stood and gave a standing ovation while the African guy
walks up to first class in the front of the plane.
(Unfortunately I do not know the source of this story by
Fr. Tommy Lane)
Humility is opposed to a pride that shows no respect for others, but tends to dominate, to exercise power for its own sake, to be unconcerned for the rights of others. It is a virtue which sees service of others as the meaning of authority.
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From Fr Tony Kadavil's Collection:
1) Cardinal Léger’s option for the poor: Most Rev. Paul-Émile Léger served as Archbishop of Montreal from 1950 to 1968, and was elevated to the cardinalate in 1953 by Pope Pius XII. He was one of the most powerful men in Canada and within the Catholic Church. He was a man of deep conviction and humility. Then on April 20, 1968 he resigned his office and, leaving his red vestments, crosier, miter, and pallium in his Montreal office, disappeared. Years later, he was found living among the lepers and disabled, outcasts of a small African village. When a Canadian journalist asked him, “Why?” here is what Cardinal Léger had to say: “It will be the great scandal of the history of our century that 600 million people are eating well and living luxuriously and three billion people starve, and every year millions of children are dying of hunger. I am too old to change all that. The only thing I can do which makes sense is to be present. I must simply be in the midst of them. So, just tell people in Canada that you met an old priest. I am a priest who is happy to be old and still a priest and among those who suffer. I am happy to be here and to take them into my heart.” (http://www.rockies.net/~spirit/sermons/a-or09-2-keeping.php Is that your calling? Is it mine? Probably not. Today’s Gospel says: “Although they cannot repay you, you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous.” (For a short biography of Cardinal Leger visit: http://www.sulpc.org/evsulpc_leger_en.php) (Barry Robinson)
2) The humble Gandhi: One man who took Jesus seriously was Mahatma Gandhi. Gandhi acknowledged that he had been much influenced by the Gospels and touched by the life of Christ. As he once remarked, “I might have become a Christian had it not been for Christians!” Gandhi did not lead the masses by standing like a monarch above them but by identifying with them and sharing in their circumstances. He identified himself with the half-naked rural masses by rejecting his attorney’s pants and coat and dressing himself with a loincloth and cotton shawl. While the other high caste Indian politicians were not willing to associate themselves with the untouchables, Gandhi chose to live, eat and march with the untouchables, and he gave them a new dignity and a new name. He honored them by calling them “harijans,” “the people of God.”
3) America’s “First Lady of Etiquette,” Emily Post, versus Jesus Christ: Luke 14 focuses on etiquette for guests and hosts at dinner parties. I thought I should see what the original “Miss Manners,” Emily Post, had to say on that subject. So, I consulted the twelfth edition of Emily Post’s Etiquette. I learned to kneel, kiss his ring, and address him as “Your Holiness” when having a private audience with the Pope. I learned replies to lunch invitations to the White House must always be handwritten and always returned that same day — and the answer is always, “Yes.” Emily Post was very specific about planning formal dinners. Seating charts were included showing which seats the guests of honor should get. Who’s seated next to whom is also important. Emily Post sums it up: “The requisites for a perfect formal dinner … are … Guests who are congenial, Servants who are competent, A lovely table setting — Food that is perfectly prepared … A cordial and hospitable host and a charming hostess” (and a good seating chart). And there is another source we can turn to on how to throw a perfect party. The source is Scripture. And the “etiquette expert” is Jesus himself. In today’s Gospel, Jesus gives guidance on party protocol while attending a formal dinner. When God is throwing a party, all the “right” people will be there — that is everyone who responds to (God’s) invitation. But seated next to the host (Jesus) in the places of honor are not the dignitaries, the celebrities, the distinguished people of position and prominence, but rather the poor, the hurting, the outcast — people who have distinguished themselves only by their need.
4) Christian Archibald Herter (March 28, 1895 – December 30, 1966) was a United States politician and statesman, governor of Massachusetts, and Secretary of State 1959–1961. When Christian Herter was governor of Massachusetts, he was running hard for a second term in office. One day, after a busy morning chasing votes (without lunch), he arrived at a church barbecue. It was late afternoon and Herter was famished. As Herter moved down the serving line, he held out his plate to the woman serving chicken. She put a piece on his plate and turned to the next person in line. “‘Excuse me,” Governor Herter said, “do you mind if I have another piece of chicken?” “‘Sorry,” the woman told him. “I’m supposed to give one piece of chicken to each person because you are going to get other food items also from other servers.” “‘But I’m starved, and I love chicken,” the governor said. “‘Sorry,” the woman said again. “Only one to a customer. “Governor Herter was a modest and unassuming man, but he decided that this time he would throw a little weight around. “‘Do you know who I am?” he said. “I am the governor of this state!” “‘Do you know who I am?” the woman retorted. “I’m the lady in charge of the chicken. Move along, mister.”
1) “It’s perfectly all right, Madam!” A truly humble man is hard to find, yet God delights to honor such selfless people. Booker T. Washington, the renowned black educator, was an outstanding example of this truth. Shortly after he took over the presidency of Tuskegee Institute in Alabama, he was walking in an exclusive section of town when he was stopped by a wealthy white woman. Not knowing the famous Mr. Washington by sight, she asked if he would like to earn a few dollars by chopping wood for her. Because he had no pressing business at the moment, Professor Washington smiled, rolled up his sleeves, and proceeded to do the humble chore she had requested. When he was finished, he carried the logs into the house and stacked them by the fireplace. A little girl recognized him and later revealed his identity to the lady. The next morning the embarrassed woman went to see Mr. Washington in his office at the Institute and apologized profusely. “It’s perfectly all right, Madam,” he replied. “Occasionally I enjoy a little manual labor. Besides, it’s always a delight to do something for a friend.” She shook his hand warmly and assured him that his meek and gracious attitude had endeared him and his work to her heart. Not long afterward she showed her admiration by persuading some wealthy acquaintances to join her in donating thousands of dollars to the Tuskegee Institute. (Our Daily Bread). (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
2) “Sir, I am a Corporal!” During the American Revolution, a man in civilian clothes rode past a group of soldiers who were busy pulling out a horse-drawn carriage stuck in deep mud. Their officer was shouting instructions to them while making no attempt to help. The stranger who witnessed the scene asked the officer why he wasn’t helping. With great dignity, the officer replied, “Sir, I am a Corporal!” The stranger dismounted from his horse and proceeded to help the exhausted soldiers himself. When the job was completed, he turned to the corporal and said, “Mr. Corporal, next time you have a job like this, and don’t have enough men to do it, inform your commander-in-chief and I will come and help you again.” Too late, the proud Corporal recognized General Washington. Today’s readings challenge us to be truly humble. (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
3) The most beautiful people in the world: They are those who care for the least and the lowliest, as Jesus instructs his host in today’s Gospel. Was there ever anyone more beautiful than Mother Teresa? Mother Teresa’s death came at the same time as the death of one of the world’s most famous beautiful people, Princess Diana. Both are remembered for what they did for others. Although Princess Diana was a young woman of many frailties who made foolish choices in marital life, she was fondly remembered, for her many acts of compassion. She cared for children. She cared for people with AIDS. Several years ago, there were two images that leaped off of the front page of a Texas newspaper. One was the image of “Miss America.” There on the front page of his newspaper was a list of the “vital statistics” of the Miss America winner, presenting her as the standard for American women. In that same newspaper another woman was pictured in a small photo. Her face was very thin. Her skin was wrinkled with age, almost leathery. She had no makeup, no blush, no lipstick. But there was a faint smile and a glint in her eyes. She looked pale. The caption read: “Mother Teresa in serious condition.” We know Mother Teresa’s story. She won the Nobel Peace Prize in 1985, and she gave the two hundred-thousand-dollar prize to the poor of Calcutta. When a businessman bought her a new car, she sold it and gave the money to the underprivileged. She owned nothing. She owed nothing. But she remains the most loved person for millions who knew her. Do you want to become such a person? Jesus’ answer in today’s Gospel is plain and simple. Look around for someone in need and make a sincere attempt to help. A person in need is not necessarily one who is poor. She/he may be a shut-in who is lonely, a teenager who is misunderstood, or an AIDS patient feeling rejected by family, neighbors, and by God, to name a few. (Mother Teresa at 100- Life and Works of a Modern Saint. The Time Magazine commemorative edition was available in August 2010 in all stores). (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
3) Funeral of Charlemagne. Charlemagne was the greatest Christian ruler of the early Middle Ages. After his death a mighty funeral procession left his castle for the cathedral at Aix. When the royal casket arrived, with a lot of pomp and circumstance, it was met by the local bishop, who barred the cathedral door.
“Who comes?” the Bishop asked from inside the cathedral, as was the custom.
“Charlemagne, Lord and King of the Holy Roman Empire,” proclaimed the Emperor’s proud herald.
“Him I know not,” the Bishop replied. “Who comes?”
The herald, a bit shaken, replied, “Charles the Great, a good and honest man of the earth.”
“Him I know not,” the Bishop said again. “Who comes?”
The herald, now completely crushed, responded, “Charles, a lowly sinner, who begs the gift of Christ.”
To this, the Bishop, Christ’s representative, responded, “Enter! Receive Christ’s gift of life!”
“Who comes?” the Bishop asked from inside the cathedral, as was the custom.
“Charlemagne, Lord and King of the Holy Roman Empire,” proclaimed the Emperor’s proud herald.
“Him I know not,” the Bishop replied. “Who comes?”
The herald, a bit shaken, replied, “Charles the Great, a good and honest man of the earth.”
“Him I know not,” the Bishop said again. “Who comes?”
The herald, now completely crushed, responded, “Charles, a lowly sinner, who begs the gift of Christ.”
To this, the Bishop, Christ’s representative, responded, “Enter! Receive Christ’s gift of life!”
Even Charlemagne in all his glory and good works could not assume a position of honor. In today’s Gospel, Jesus invites his host to receive applause and honor from God by inviting the poor and the needy to the banquet. (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
5) Thou shall not park here: Maybe you’ve heard the humorous story about the pastor who was having difficulty with his assigned parking space on the Church parking lot. People parked in his spot whenever they pleased, even though there was a sign that clearly said, “This space reserved.” He thought the sign needed to be clearer, so he had a different sign made, which read, “Reserved for Pastor Only.” Still people ignored it and parked in his space whenever they felt like it. “Maybe the sign should be more forceful,” he thought. So, he devised a more intimidating one in the Ten Commandment style, which announced, “Thou shalt not park here.” That sign didn’t make any difference either. Finally, he hit upon the words that worked; in fact, nobody ever took his parking place again. The sign read, “The one who parks here preaches the sermon on humility this Sunday morning!” You would probably feel uncomfortable about doing that because of a lack of experience and training. The Gospel reading here, as well as the other two readings selected for this Sunday, set before us a vision of a common ministry that all of us can be a part of. I would call it something like “a ministry of humble hospitality.” [Richard W. Patt, All Stirred Up (CSS Publishing, Lima, Ohio, 1977, 0-7880-1040-9).] (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
6) What kind of player are you looking for?” Coach Shug Jordan at Auburn University asked his former Linebacker Mike Kollin, who was then playing for the Miami Dolphins, if he would help his alma mater do some recruiting. Mike said, “Sure, coach. What kind of player are you looking for?” The coach said, “There’s a fellow, you knock him down, he gets up. Knock him down, he gets up. Knock him down, he gets up. Knock him down, he gets up.” Mike said, “That’s the guy we want isn’t it, coach?” The coach answered, “No, Mike, we don’t want him. I want you to find the guy who’s knocking everybody down. That’s the guy we want.” That’s the guy we want to be seen with, want to invite to our dinners and social gatherings, because, deeply, it is the kind of people we want to be. We don’t want to be seen with the guys who are always being knocked down–the poor, crippled, the lame, the blind. But these are the very people, as we shall soon see, that we are encouraged to associate with. Look with me as we examine Jesus’ story about a party as given in today’s Gospel. (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
7) Humble Hardy & Dorothy Day: It is said of Thomas Hardy, the great 19th century poet and novelist, that even after his great talent was discovered and any newspaper would have paid enormously to publish him, he would still send a self-addressed stamped envelope to the newspaper publisher in the event that his poem or short story might be rejected. Leonard Bernstein, the famous musician, was once asked which instrument was the most difficult to play. He thought for a moment and then replied, “The second fiddle. I can get plenty of first violinists, but to find someone who can play the second fiddle with enthusiasm – that’s a problem. And if we have no second fiddle, we have no harmony.” A similar story that personifies humility is told of Dorothy Day, the foundress of the Catholic Worker who once was sitting having a conversation with a disheveled, homeless person who had come into the house for a meal. When she recognized a reporter who had entered into the house pacing back and forth waiting for the conversation to end, she looked directly at him and asked, “Are you waiting to speak to one of us?” (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
8) Success and Mother Teresa: Mother Teresa was once asked, “How do you measure the success of your work?” She thought about the question and gave her interviewer a puzzled look, and said, “I don’t remember that the Lord ever spoke of success. He spoke only of faithfulness in love. This is the only success that really counts.” I think Mother Teresa would point to this story in Luke’s Gospel today to justify that response. Jesus instructs us in today’s Gospel not to do things that bring us the honor of men. Instead, we are to do things for which God will honor us. (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
9) The television program 20/20 shared the stories of people who have restructured their lives in order to be able to share what they have with others. One person had given away her $3 million inheritance saying she already had what she needed and other people don’t. She couldn’t live with having a second home when others don’t have their first. The interviewer was incredulous as she asked, “But you see pretty things. Don’t you wish you had some of them?” “Sure, I like them,” she replied, “but I don’t need them.” Another man donated 60% of his income to charity with the goal of contributing $1 million in his lifetime. He did this by living in a small apartment and driving a used car. (Rev. Barbara Royle, http://www.soth.net/sermons%202005/sermon%2012-4-2005.htm.) Could you do that? Could I? Today’s Gospel challenges every Christian to do that. (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
10) “Were you there?” Ethel Barrymore, the great stage and screen actress, was a stickler for good manners. She once invited a younger actress to a dinner party at her home. But the young lady never appeared. She didn’t even bother to offer an excuse or make an apology. She just didn’t show up. Several days later Ethel Barrymore and the young lady met by chance at a museum. Embarrassed, the younger actress began, “Miss Barrymore, I believe I was invited to your house last Thursday evening for dinner.” To which Ethel Barrymore responded coolly, “Yes, I believe I did invite you. Were you there?” [Clifton Fadiman, editor, The Little, Brown Book of Anecdotes (New York: Little, Brown and Company), p. 40).] In today’s Gospel, Jesus briefs his host on good manners He expects. (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
11) Captains’ pride leads to fatal collision: In the summer of 1986, two ships collided in the Black Sea off the coast of Russia. Hundreds of passengers, hurled into the icy waters below, died. News of the disaster was further darkened when an investigation revealed the cause of the accident. It wasn’t a technology problem like radar malfunction or even thick fog. The cause was human stubbornness. Each captain was aware of the other ship’s presence nearby. Either could have steered clear, but according to news reports, neither captain wanted to give way to the other. Each was too proud to yield first. By the time they came to their senses, it was too late. Many of the ills that afflict our Catholic Church and our nation at large might be resolved with a big dose of humility for everyone involved. (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
12) “I cannot remember the menu of a single meal.“: A colleague of mine recently received a letter from one of his parishioners. It read as follows: “My dear pastor, I notice that you seem to set a great deal of importance on your sermons and spend no small amount of time preparing them. I have been attending services for the past 30 years and, during that time, I have listened to no less than 3000 sermons. But I hate to inform you that I cannot remember a single one. I wonder if your time might be better spent on something else.” After waiting a couple of days to heal his pride and swallow his defensiveness, my friend wrote back, saying: “My dear parishioner, I have been married for 30 years. During that time, I have eaten 32,580 meals … mostly of my wife’s cooking. Alas, I have discovered that I cannot remember the menu of a single meal. Yet, judging by outward appearances, I have been nourished by every one of them. In fact, I have the distinct impression that without them, I would have starved to death years ago.” Today’s Gospel describes a banquet which Jesus attended. (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
13) Jesus handles a “put down” at a party hosted by a Pharisee: The English are the masters of the put-down. Many of the entries into that anthology of insults came from England, like the story of George Bernard Shaw, who was invited to a woman’s house for tea. She was one of those people who liked to “collect” celebrities so that she, herself, might be considered a celebrity. She sent Shaw her card, which read, “Lady So-and-So will be at home Thursday from 4:00 to 6:00 p.m.” Shaw wrote a note on the card and sent it back, and said, “Mr. George Bernard Shaw likewise.” Winston Churchill was equally adept at the put-down. There is a famous exchange between Winston Churchill and Lady Astor. Lady Astor did not like Winston Churchill, so one day she said to him, “If I were your wife, I’d put poison in your tea.” Churchill said, “If I were your husband, I’d drink it.” Bernard Shaw sent two tickets to his latest play opening in London to Churchill with this note, “Here are two tickets for the opening night of my new play, one for you and one for a friend, if you have one.” Churchill sent them back with this note, “I cannot attend opening night. Send me two tickets for the next night, if there is one.” (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
14) Anton Chekhov on false humility: The great Russian author/playwright Anton Chekhov, in a letter addressed to a younger brother in 1879, gave the classic response to the phenomenon of false humility. He had received a letter in which the brother had signed himself as “your insignificant and obscure little brother.” “Do you know,” Chekhov asked in reply, “before whom you should confess your insignificance?” He proceeded to answer his own question. “Before God, if you will, before intelligence, beauty, nature, but not before people. Among people, you have to show your worth. After all, you’re not a crook, are you? You are an honest fellow, are you not? Well then, respect the honest fellow in yourself and recognize that the honest fellow is never insignificant. Don’t confuse ‘coming to terms with yourself’ with ‘recognizing your insignificance.'” [Quoted in George F. Kennan, Around the Cragged Hill ([New York: W. W. Norton, 1993), 22.] (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
15) Measure of greatness: Greatness is not measured by how much we gain, but by how much we give. How many millionaires has America produced over the past two centuries? I don’t know the figure. Tens of thousands, I’m sure. Of those millionaires who are dead, how many can you name? Not very many. Most of them are gone. Forgotten. All their toys are back in the box. Somebody else lives in their magnificent homes. Everything they worked for has turned to dust – except for the few who learned the lesson that greatness is measured not by what you gain, but by what you give. Would Carnegie and Vanderbilt and Rockefeller be remembered if their names were not engraved on public buildings, libraries and universities? Would we have any idea who old Joe Kennedy, “with all his millions of dollars,” was, if his boys had not devoted themselves to public service? And a century from now, whose names will live on after all the lifestyles of today’s rich and famous have faded into obscurity? Albert Schweitzer? Mother Teresa? Mahatma Gandhi? Martin Luther King, Jr.? The number will be few. Some great scientists, a few artists, a political leader here and there — in every case I can promise one thing. Each of them will be a person who gave more to the world than he or she received. (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
16) “No, Sir, I was only a cobbler.”: William Carey, the great missionary of India, was a very humble man despite his great linguistic skills and botanical achievements. He had translated the Bible into several Indian languages. The intellectuals and men of high positions in Calcutta recognized him. On one occasion the Governor General of India invited him to a party. As they sat around the table, one of the invitees asked another whether this was the Carey who was once a shoemaker. Carey overheard this comment and turned to the person and said, in all humility, “No, Sir, I was only a cobbler.” (John Rose in John’s Sunday Homilies; quoted by Fr. Botelho). (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
17) Humility Speaks in Silence! For a lady traveler it was a pleasant journey by train from New York to Philadelphia as there was only one more passenger besides her. Her co-passenger was rather a heavy-set man. But her joy of comfort was disturbed when the man lit a cigar and started smoking. The lady deliberately coughed and showed an unpleasant face. Nothing worked. He continued to smoke. Then she blurted out, “You might be a foreigner. But don’t you know that there is a smoking car ahead. Smoking is prohibited here. The man quietly threw his cigar out of the window and maintained his equanimity. When the conductor came to examine the tickets the lady passenger realized with horror that her co-passenger was the famous General Ulysses Grant. She had boarded his private car by mistake. As the lady made a hasty exit the General did not even look at her so as not to embarrass her. He turned his head and smiled only after the lady was out of sight. -Great humility is displayed by strong people. (G. Francis Xavier in Inspiring Stories; quoted by Fr. Botelho). (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
18) Inflated Ego: Some time ago in Florida, the St. Petersburg Times carried an interesting story about Don Shula, the coach of the Miami Dolphins, vacationing with his family in a small town in northern Maine. One afternoon it was raining, and so Shula, his wife and his five children decided to attend a matinee movie in the town’s only theatre. When they arrived the house, lights were still on in the theatre, where there were only six other people present. When Shula and his family walked in, all six people stood up and applauded. He waved and smiled. As Shula sat down, he turned to his wife and said, “We’re thousands of miles from Miami and they are giving me a standing ovation. They must get the Dolphins on television all the way up here. Then a man came to shake Don Shula’s hand. Shula beamed and said, “How did you recognize me?” The man replied, “Mister, I don’t know who you are. All I know is just before you and your family walked in the theatre manager told us that unless four more people turned up, we wouldn’t have a movie today.” This story clarifies the teaching of today’s reading that our Christian commitment calls us to be humble people. (Mark Link in Sunday Homilies; quoted by Fr. Botelho). (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
19) Who is the greatest? Here is a beautiful legend about a king who decided to set aside a special day to honor his greatest subject. When the big day arrived, there was a large gathering in the palace courtyard. Four finalists were brought forward, and from these four, the king would select the winner. The first person presented was a wealthy philanthropist. The king was told that this man was highly deserving of the honor because of his humanitarian efforts. He had given much of his wealth to the poor. The second person was a celebrated physician. The king was told that this doctor was highly deserving of the honor because he had rendered faithful and dedicated service to the sick for many years. The third person was a distinguished judge. The king was told that the judge was worthy because he was noted for his wisdom, his fairness, and his brilliant decisions. The fourth person presented was an elderly woman. Everyone was quite surprised to see her there, because her manner was quite humble, as was her dress. She hardly looked as the greatest subject in the kingdom. What chance could she possibly have, when compared to the other three, who had accomplished so much? Even so, there was something about her the look of love in her face, the understanding in her eyes, her quiet confidence. The king was intrigued, to say the least, and somewhat puzzled by her presence. He asked who she was. The answer came: “You see the philanthropist, the doctor, and the judge? Well, she was their teacher!” That woman had no wealth, no fortune, and no title, but she had unselfishly given her life to produce great people. There is nothing more powerful or more Christ-like than sacrificial love. The king could not see the value in the humble lady. He missed the significance of the teacher. Often, we miss the value of those around us. I think it would surprise us to know how often we miss the presence of Christ just as Cleopas and his brother missed the significance of the stranger on the road to Emmaus. It is likewise easy for us to miss the significance of the resurrection. On the road to Emmaus don’t miss…..(Anonymous; quoted by Fr. Botelho). (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
20) Truly Humble: An arrogant American musician once visited the house of the great composer Beethoven, sat down at the piano and proudly began to play Beethoven’s Moonlight Sonata. When he had finished, he asked the concierge, “I suppose many celebrities come here?” “Yes,” replied the man, “Paderewski was here last week.” The American continued, “And did he play the piano too?” “No,” said the old concierge, “He said he wasn’t worthy.” Ignace Jan Paderewski was a brilliant Polish pianist, composer, orator, writer, social worker and philosopher who eventually became Prime Minister of Poland in 1919. He was deeply humble and is a model of what Jesus asks of us all. (Francis Goncalves, Sunday Seeds for Daily Deeds; quoted by Fr. Botelho). (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
21) Self-Effacing Humility: One type of humility is self-effacement – the habit of doing good deeds, or indeed just daily work, secretly and anonymously, without expecting thanks. A good example of that is a teacher, who in preparation for Thanksgiving Day asked her class of first graders to draw a picture of something they were thankful for. She thought of how little these children from their poor neighborhood had. She imagined that most of them would draw pictures of turkeys or tables of food. But the teacher was taken aback with the picture little Douglas handed in -a childishly drawn hand. The teacher showed it to the class to decide whose hand it was. “I think it must be the hand of God that brings us food,” said one child. “A farmer,” said another, “because he grows the turkeys.” When the others were at work, the teacher bent over Douglas’ desk and asked whose hand it was. “It is your hand, teacher,” he mumbled. It was only then that she recalled that frequently at recess she had taken Douglas, a scrubby forlorn child by the hand. She often did that with the children; it had obviously meant a lot to Douglas. For herself, she was grateful for the chance, in whatever small way, to give self-effacingly to others. (Harold Buetow in God Still Speaks: Listen! Quoted by Fr. Botelho.) (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
22) Learning from the Great: Dr. Richard Evans was a psychologist at the University of Houston who had developed an interesting series of films. They consisted of interviews Evans did with some great leaders in the fields of psychology and psychiatry –people like Carl Jung, Eric Fromm, Erik Erikson, Carl Rogers, B.F. Skinner, and Jean Piaget. Surprisingly, the major thing Evans learned from these great figures was the need for humility: What these great thinkers profess to know and their assessment of it is rather humble. Some people tend to oversell what psychology and psychiatry can do to help people solve their problems. Not so with the really great personages in these fields. The really important people have a modest view of what they have contributed, much less what the field had contributed in general. –Humility is the mark of all truly great men. A healthy sense of humor is closer to humility than self-depreciation. Pope St. John XXIII once remarked: “Anybody can become Pope; the proof of this is that I have become Pope.” (Albert Cylwicki in His Word Resounds; quoted by Fr. Botelho.) (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
23) A young man in a Train: A young man entered the coach of a train in a small university town in France. The ink was scarcely dry on his newly acquired diploma. As the train sped off for Paris, he took his seat in the rear of the coach near an elderly gentleman who seemed to be dozing. As the train suddenly lurched, a string of rosary beads fell from his hand. The young man picked up the rosary and handed it to the elderly gentleman with the remark, “I presume you are praying, sir?” “You are right. I was praying.” “I am surprised,” said the young fellow, “that in this day and age there is someone who is still so benighted and superstitious. Our professors at the university do not believe in such things,” and he proceeded to “enlighten” his elderly fellow-passenger. The old man expressed surprise and amazement. “Yes,” continued the young man, “today enlightened people don’t believe in such nonsense.” “You don’t say!” replied the old man. “Yes, sir, and if you wish, I can send you some illuminating books.” “Very well,” said the old man, preparing to leave as the train came to a stop. “You may send them to this address.” He handed the young man a card, which read: Louis Pasteur, Director of the Institute of Scientific Research, Paris. (Fr. Kayala). (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
24) Inventor Samuel Morse: Wakefield tells the story of the famous inventor Samuel Morse who was once asked if he ever encountered situations where he didn’t know what to do. Morse responded, “More than once, and whenever I could not see my way clearly, I knelt down and prayed to God for light and understanding.” Morse received many honors from his invention of the telegraph but felt undeserving: “I have made a valuable application of electricity not because I was superior to other men but solely because God, who meant it for mankind, must reveal it to someone and He was pleased to reveal it to me.” (Tim Hansel, Eating Problems for Breakfast, Word Publishing, 1988, pp. 33-34). (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
25) Henry Augustus Rowland: professor of physics at Johns Hopkins University, was once called as an expert witness at a trial. During cross-examination a lawyer demanded, “What are your qualifications as an expert witness in this case?” The normally modest and retiring professor replied quietly, “I am the greatest living expert on the subject under discussion.” Later a friend well acquainted with Rowland’s disposition expressed surprise at the professor’s uncharacteristic answer. Rowland answered, “Well, what did you expect me to do? I was under oath.” (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
26) President Lincoln: Abraham Lincoln once got caught up in a situation where he wanted to please a politician, so he issued a command to transfer certain regiments. When the secretary of war, Edwin Stanton, received the order, he refused to carry it out. He said that the President was a fool. Lincoln was told what Stanton had said, and he replied, “If Stanton said I’m a fool, then I must be, for he is nearly always right. I’ll see for myself.” As the two men talked, the President quickly realized that his decision was a serious mistake, and without hesitation he withdrew it. (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
27) Pope Francis: Just after his election to the Papacy, Pope Francis demonstrated and defined the practice of humility — not by his words but by his actions. After his election to the papacy, Francis turned down the Vatican limousine ride, instead taking the minibus back over to the hotel with his brother Cardinals. At the hotel, he gathered his luggage, thanked each member of the staff, and paid his own bill. He did not pass off these seemingly meaningless tasks to a papal aide. It was not as if he had nothing to do. Francis, this humble servant of the Lord, remained Francis, humble servant of the Lord, even after being elected head of the Roman Catholic Church. His humility was not so much a series of individual actions or practices as it was a way of life for him, as a Jesuit priest, archbishop, cardinal, and pope. (Fr. Tony Kayala). (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
28) “Peter, tell me what hurts me!” The Hasidic Rabbi, Levi Yitzhak of the Ukraine, said that he had discovered the true meaning of love and humility from a pair of drunken friends in a country tavern. While chatting with the owner of the tavern, the rabbi saw the men embracing and declaring their love for one another. Suddenly Ivan said to his companion, “Peter, tell me what hurts me!” Sobered by such a startling remark, Peter replied, “How do I know what hurts you?” Ivan’s answer was immediate, “If you don’t know what hurts me, how can you say you love me?” Through their interchange, the two companions underscored the fact that the true humility which issues forth in love is not fostered by navel-gazing but by bending down to look up into the eyes of another. From that humble position, the hopes and needs, the hurts and fears of the other are readily perceived; from that position of humility, love can be offered, and service can be rendered, not with an air of condescension but with the warmth of compassion. (Sanchez Files). (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
29) “The one who humbles himself will be exalted.” Mike McGarvin, the founder of Poverello House in Fresno, was an alcoholic, a drug addict and a substance abuser. Mike was converted in his early twenties when he met the tenderhearted and welcoming Franciscan priest, Fr. Simon Scanlon, in the Tenderloin district of urban San Francisco. The Tenderloin district was notorious for its poverty, prostitution, and violence. Fr. Simon, the pastor of St. Boniface Church, responded to the hapless situation by gathering some volunteers and opening the Poverello Coffeehouse, a safe haven and place of refuge where people on the streets could find acceptance, hot coffee and a warm welcome. Fr. Simon asked Mike to volunteer at Poverello. The burly ex-football player said “yes” and, in accepting to serve the poor and the homeless, was set on the road to recovery. In 2003 he wrote a very interesting book, Papa Mike, about his conversion and his service to the poor, the marginalized and the homeless. After reading the book, I concluded that Mike McGarvin is a living example of one who had humbly recognized his human frailty and weakness and turned to God for salvation. He is a realization of the words of Jesus: “The one who humbles himself will be exalted” (Lk 14:11b). (Lectio Divina). (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
30) “Stop! The cup is full!” An old story is told about someone who is searching for the meaning of life who wanders into the hut of a holy hermit in a forest. The hermit offers his guest tea and keeps pouring tea into the cup until it is overflowing. The guest watched the overflow until he could no longer restrain himself. “Stop! The cup is full. No more will go in.” And then the hermit replied, “Like this cup, you are full of your own opinions, preconceptions, and ideas. How can I teach you unless you first empty your cup?” That is a wonderful story about humility, which is esteemed by many religious traditions. Dante in The Divine Comedy thought of humility as the most important virtue. Humility is radical dependence upon and trust in God. (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
31) “Guess Who’s Coming to Dinner?” is a 1967 film, starring the likes of Spencer Tracy, Sidney Poitier, Katherine Hepburn, and Katharine Houghton. In this film, the daughter of a well-to-do white family, Joanna Drayton (played by Houghton), comes home from a vacation to announce her intentions of marrying a well-to-do black physician, John Prentice (played by Poitier). The plot thickens as Joanna Drayton brings John Prentice home to dinner to meet her parents who do not know John is black; John’s parents also come into town for the Draytons’ dinner in order to meet Joanna, who, they learn at the airport, is white. This might not be such a big deal today, but in 1967 to present a positive representation of a controversial subject like interracial marriage was bold. Bold because historically interracial marriage was illegal in most states and was still illegal in 17 states until June 12, 1967. This movie presents a cultural taboo of that time and it does so around the dinner table because who’s at the table says something about who’s in and who’s out. The table is not only where one may say grace; it is the space where one extends grace as Jesus instructs in today’s Gospel. (Rev. Luke A. Powery). (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
32) “Put these out on the tables if you don’t mind.” A while back Truett Cathy, the founder of Chick-fil-A, was a guest in our church. Hundreds of men had turned out one evening to hear this humble man of God; but before the doors were opened, when the men were still lined up outside waiting to be seated, I went into the auditorium to greet Mr. Cathy. I introduced myself and identified myself as the Senior Minister of the church. “If there is anything I can do to help,” I said rhetorically, “just call on me.” And he did! He handed me a big stack of those cards that entitle the bearer to a free Chick-fil-A sandwich and said, “Put these out on the tables if you don’t mind.” Good grief. I was the Senior Minister! But this man gave me a chance to view the banquet from a lesser seat, and I think he got it right. And yes, the Senior Minister put a few hundred cards on the tables. ( Rev. Dr. Sam Matthews). (http://frtonyshomilies.com/).
33) “You like me, you really like me!”: You may not remember this 1984 film, Places in the Heart. But you may remember a well-known incident associated with it. In 1985, Places in the Heart star Sally Field won her second Academy Award for her role in this film. In her now-famous acceptance speech for her Oscar, Field said, “I can’t deny the fact that you like me, right now, you like me!” This line, of course, has been slightly misquoted as it has become well known as “You like me, you really like me!” Places in the Heart is a wonderful film. Set in Texas during the 1930s, it is a film about survival in the face of very difficult circumstances. Sally Field plays a poor widow with small children. She takes in boarders to help her make ends meet on her dirt-poor farm. Her two borders are a blind man, played by John Malkovich, and an African American man, played by Danny Glover. Glover is also her farm hand and farm manager and faces overt racism from Field’s white racist neighbors. Places in the Heart is a story of triumph in the face of overwhelming odds. Sally Field well deserved the Oscar she won for her role in this film. Places in the Heart is also one of the most theological Hollywood films ever made. It has the most amazing final scene, set in Church, during Holy Communion. As Communion is being distributed, the camera pans the congregation. There pictured all around Sally Field’s character are all the people who are and have been important in her life, those both living and dead. It is a portrait of the Heavenly Banquet, the Communion S saints, if ever there was one. I thought again of Places in the Heart when I read today’s gospel lesson from St. Luke, in which Jesus is describing God’s heavenly banquet, one which will include everyone, not just the wealthy and friends and relatives, but also the poor, the crippled, the lame and the blind. (Rev. Eric Shafer). (http://frtonyshomilies.com/). L/19
