1) First Thing in the Morning:
During the course of earning her master's degree, a woman found it necessary to commute several times a week from Victory, Vermont to the state university in Burlington, a good hundred miles away. Coming home late at night, she would see an old man sitting by the side of her road. He was always there, in sub zero temperatures, in stormy weather, no matter how late she returned. He made no acknowledgment of her passing. The snow settled on his cap and shoulders as if he were merely another gnarled old tree. She often wondered what brought him to that same spot every evening. Perhaps it was a stubborn habit, private grief or a mental disorder.
Finally, she asked a neighbor of hers, "Have you ever seen an old man who sits by the road late at night?" "Oh, yes," said her neighbor, "many times." "Is he a little touched upstairs? Does he ever go home?" The neighbor laughed and said, "He's no more touched than you or me. And he goes home right after you do. You see, he doesn't like the idea of you driving by yourself out late all alone on these back roads, so every night he walks out to wait for you. When he sees your taillights disappear around the bend, and he knows you're okay, he goes home to bed."
That harried young mother in the doctor's waiting room (or maybe the next pew): perhaps loving her as yourself means offering to watch the toddler while she feeds the baby. That person in line at the bank who's stumbling over the English language and struggling to understand deposits and withdrawals: could loving him mean stepping out of line and helping him get it straight? That next-door neighbor struggling to keep his marriage together, that daughter who pushes your buttons every ten minutes, that husband scared of being laid off -- these are the ones who desperately need the strong saving love, the compassion and mercy, the challenge and holiness and presence of Jesus. In those moments, dare to risk being rebuffed or inconvenienced. Dare to look foolish and make mistakes. Dare to love God and that person, even if it wrings your heart with pain to do so. It's what we've been created, redeemed, and commanded to do. Hang your whole life on love, for the truth is, it's God's love, active in you. And his love will never fail.
Cathy A. Ammlung,
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8) Beauty and the Beast
While he was in school, he was also pastoring a Catholic church in the heart of Newark, New Jersey. If you want to talk about urban blight and poverty and hunger, all you have to do is to take a trip up and down the streets of Newark.
On one occasion, Sean heard that a family in his parish was hungry. Because of a bureaucratic foul-up, a mother with five small children had no food and no hope of getting any until the end of the month.
Although the family was not Catholic, Sean O'Kelly went to the grocery store and bought a supply of groceries. There were three full sacks, and he went to the apartment building where the family lived. After carrying the groceries up four flights of stairs and walking down a long hall, he came to the apartment. He rang the doorbell, and a little boy about seven years old answered the door. He looked at Father O'Kelly's clerical collar and the sacks of groceries, and then screamed at his mother: "Mama, Mama, come quick. Jesus brought us some food!"
In telling about that incident, Sean said, "I will never forget that child's comment. At that moment, I realized that I was the Christ for a hungry child."
If we are to be the neighbors that God calls us to be, then we need to understand that you and I are expected to help those we have the capacity to help. The opportunities for service are almost endless in every neighborhood - even yours. There are a dozen ways or more for you to help people if you are willing to be the neighbor God calls you to be! Religion in a nutshell means that you really are expected to be "Jesus" to your neighbors when they are in need.
Robert L. Allen,
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1: The Shema’s challenge to become
“Iron Man” & “Iron Woman:” Mark Allen, a six-time “Ironman”
winner and holder of the title “The World’s Fittest Man,” is married to
a retired “Iron woman” triathlete, Julie Moss.
Ironman / Ironwoman competitions include a gruelling triathlon of swimming, bicycling, and running, designed to push the capabilities of the human body to their limits. To compete as an Ironman/Ironwoman, one must be in superb, all-round, peak physical condition. Mark Allen has devised a 16-week program designed to get a person into a state of “ultimate fitness.” Allen also claims that if one follows this complete training regimen for as little as five hours a week, he/she can be transformed from chump into champ. Perhaps more startling is Allen’s description of his training regimen as a kind of “meditation” for the entire body. The training regimen includes four components: “heart training” for endurance; “mind training” for attitude; “nutritional training,” eating and drinking as often as they are needed those things that will support the members of the body to survive and thrive, while avoiding those that will have detrimental effects, and “strength training” for muscle mass. Thus, Allen has physicalized the Shema mandate given in today’s Gospel, (Mk 12:29-30), into a program for shaping and transforming a human being in his/her entirety. When, in the Shema, the Lord God commands, “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, with all your soul, with all your mind and with all your strength,” and “you shall love your neighbor as yourself,” He reminds Israel and us that a big part of human existence is sheerly physical. It takes a certain amount of brute strength just to get through each and every day. To deny God’s presence and love in the physical world would be to remove godliness from our existence. As Christian men and women, we have our own Iron Person to look to as a perfect example of “fitness.” Jesus Christ completely embodied the mandates of the Shema – loving His Father, God, with all His heart, mind, soul and strength, then reflecting God’s love for Him in loving all He met, His neighbors, the same way. May Jesus coach us as we train in godliness, loving God and neighbor with all our heart, mind, soul and strength!
2: SoSA (Society of St. Andrew) practicing the two great commandments of God: SoSA was given the first Hero of Food Recovery and Gleaning Award by the US Department of Agriculture. SoSA is a grassroot, Faith-based, hunger-relief, non-profit organization which works with all denominations to bridge the hunger gap between 96 billion pounds of food wasted every year in the United States and the nearly 40 million Americans who live in poverty. SoSA relies on support from donors, volunteers, and farmers as they glean nutritious excess produce from farmers’ fields and orchards after harvest and deliver it to people in need across the United States. Gleaning is the Biblical practice of hand-gathering crops left in the fields after harvest. Each year, tens of thousands of volunteers come together across the country to glean food left in farmers’ fields and orchards so that it does not go to waste but instead goes to the tables of those in need. Since it began in 1979, the Society has collected more than 200-million pounds of fresh produce – perfectly nutritious food that might have some cosmetic deformity, making it unsaleable – and delivered it to soup kitchens, food banks, Salvation Army Centers, homeless shelters, and the like. That 200-million pounds otherwise would have rotted! Ken Horne, a United Methodist minister who is a co-founder of the group, accepted the award and noted, “There is enough surplus food in this country to feed every hungry person…No one should ever have to go hungry.” Amen! Can you imagine that God does not mind if people go hungry, that God does not care that every day some 40,000 children around the globe die of malnutrition-related causes? Hardly! Then we who say we love God will demonstrate it in love for our hungry neighbor. All it takes is the commitment of God’s people, time-wise and money-wise, and the problem will be solved. No holding back. (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Society_of_St._Andrew)
3: The child’s commandments: A Sunday school teacher was talking to a class of five- and six-year-olds about the Ten Commandments. “Can you give me a Commandment with only four words?” she asked. “I know,” said a little girl: “Keep off the grass.” The discussion turned to family love and the teacher brought in the Commandment, “Honor thy father and thy mother.” Then she asked, “What about a Commandment that tells us how to treat our brothers and sisters?” A little boy who had five brothers and sisters was quick to answer: “I know,” he said, “You shall not kill.” When the class ended, two of the boys began to poke each other. The teacher intervened saying, “Didn’t we just finish talking about the Golden Rule?” to which one of the little combatants replied, “Yes but he did it unto me first.”
4: No God, no potatoes! A few years
ago, on a routine visit to a Soviet collective farm, a Russian commissar
demanded of one of the laborers in the fields: “How was the crop this year?”
“Oh, we had a fantastic harvest — many, many potatoes. So many potatoes, in
fact, that if you piled them up to the sky, they would reach the foot of God!”
The commissar scolded, “There is no God, comrade.” The laborer retorted, “There
aren’t any potatoes either.” [Kenneth Y. Tomlinson, in
Imprimis 20, (December 1991).]
5: Faith in the one and only God and trust
in several stars: Canadian sociologist Reginald Bibby reports of
Canadians, “Eighty-eight percent know their astrological signs, with half of
the entire population reading their horoscopes at least once a month,
outnumbering Bible readers by two to one.” [Reported in Martin E. Marty,
Context (1 November 1993).] –Wouldn’t it be great if 88% of the
people were starting their day with the Word of God, not the alignment of the
stars?
6: Love your neighbor as you love
yourself: Three men were sailing together in the Pacific Ocean. Their
vessel was wrecked and they found themselves on an island. They had plenty of
food, but their existence was in every way different from what their lives had
been in the past. The men were walking by the seashore one day after they had
been there for some months and found an ancient lantern. One man picked it up.
As he began to rub it and clean it, a genie popped out and said, “Well, since
you have been good enough to release me, I will give each of you one wish.” The
first man said, “Oh, that’s perfectly marvelous. I’m a cattleman from Wyoming
and I wish I were back on my ranch.” Poof! He was back on his ranch. The second
man said, “Well, I’m a stockbroker from New York, and I wish that I were back
in Manhattan.” Poof! He was back in Manhattan with his papers, his telephones,
his clients and his computers. The third fellow was somewhat more relaxed about
life and actually had rather enjoyed life there on the island. He said, “Well,
I am quite happy here. I just wish my two friends were back.” Poof! Poof!
(Everybody’s idea of a “great time” isn’t the same).
19-Additional anecdotes:
1) Love your neighbor by shaving your head: An
unusual story of neighborly love appeared in an Associated Press article a year
or two ago. Feature writer, Barbara Yuill, told how Manuel Garcia was afraid
that he would be conspicuous when he shaved his head to get rid of patches of
hair left by chemotherapy. He did not want to be the only “baldy” on his block.
He need not have worried, Ms. Yuill wrote. She found his neighborhood teeming
with bald heads, all because of love and concern for Manuel, in his fight
against stomach cancer. His brother, Julio, first had the idea of going bald.
Soon, about fifty friends and relatives shaved their heads to cheer up Garcia.
His five-year-old son was bald, and his two older boys had gotten shaves or
partial shaves. His wife and daughter had gotten their hair cut short. Some of
the fifty friends and relatives had gotten partial shaves, leaving a
Mohawk-like strip of hair down the center of the head, or a ducktail. “I cut my
hair because I’ve known him for about fifteen years,” said one 26-year-old. “I
love him like a father. It made him feel better.”– An excellent example of
loving your neighbor as yourself, wouldn’t you say? Yes, but not good enough.
To love your neighbor as yourself means that if you lived on Manuel Garcia’s
block and had reason to despise the man, you would “put yourself in his shoes”
and shave your head like the others.Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
2) He wanted Donna to have his heart when he died:
Another newspaper story may provide a better one. It told of Donna, who was
given only a few months to live after doctors discovered that she had a
degenerative heart muscle. Her fifteen-year-old boyfriend had a premonition
about his own death. He told his mother that, when he died, he wanted Donna to
have his heart. Three weeks later he died from a burst blood vessel in his
brain. His heart was implanted in Donna, just as he had wished. — To love your
neighbor as yourself also means that if you were to choose to give your heart
away when you die, you would do so with no strings attached. The recipient
could be a sinner on skid row or death row, for all you care. He/she might
survive on your old heart long enough to allow God to redeem him/her. Fr.
Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
3) Wouldn’t you like to live in a neighborhood like that? Less
than a year after Richard and Judie Wheeler began building their dream house in
Winona, Texas, Richard learned he had cancer. For the first time in months, the
saws and hammers were silent around the Wheeler home. Then a member of the
Wheelers’ church stopped by the house they were renting and asked Judie for the
plans to the new dwelling. What happened next resembled an old-fashioned
barn-raising. Members of the church started up where Richard had left off. Word
spread through the community, and people began offering their services. Some
knew a little about plumbing, while others could install wiring. A local
restaurant fed volunteers all the chicken fried steaks and hamburgers they
could eat. As the house neared completion, Richard Wheeler’s battle with cancer
ended. He never saw the house finished. But Judie, who moved in with their
daughters in October 1994, a month after Richard’s death, said it had been
easier for him knowing that the compassionate neighbors of Winona were taking
care of his family. [Kim McGuire in Tyler, Texas, Morning
Telegraph. Cited in “Heroes for Today,” Readers Digest (May
1996), pp. 64-65.] — Wouldn’t you like to live in a neighborhood like that?
That is Jesus’ will for the entire world: that people should care about other
people. Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
4) Living In the Kingdom of God: loving God living in
his neighbors. Once, a village blacksmith had a vision. An angel came to him
and said “The time has come for you to take your place in His kingdom.” “I
thank God for thinking of me” said the blacksmith, “but as you know, the season
of sowing the crops will soon be here. The people of the village will need
their ploughs repaired, and their horses shod. I don’t wish to seem ungrateful,
but do you think I might put off taking my place in the kingdom until I have
finished?” The angel looked at him in a wise and loving way of angels. The
blacksmith continued his work, and almost finished when he heard of a neighbor
who fell ill in the middle of the planting season. The next time the blacksmith
saw the angel he pointed out towards the barren fields, and pleaded with the angel.
“Do you think eternity could hold of a little longer? If I don’t finish my job,
my friend’s family will suffer.” Again the angel smiled and vanished. The
blacksmith’s friend recovered, but another’s barn was burned down and a third
was in deep sorrow at the death of his wife. And the fourth… and so on…
Whenever the angel appeared, the blacksmith just spread out his hands in a
gesture of resignation and compassion and drew the angel’s eyes to where the
suffering was. One evening the blacksmith began to think of the angel and how
he had put him off for such a long time. He felt very old and tired, and he
prayed “Lord, if you would like to send your angel again, I would like to see
him now.” He’d no sooner spoken than the angel appeared before him. “If you
still want me to take me,” said the blacksmith, “I am now ready to take my
place in the kingdom of the Lord.” The angel looked at the blacksmith, and
smiled, as he said “Where do you think you have been living all these years?”
(Jack McArdle in “And That’s the Gospel Truth”).Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
5) “How do I know which religion is the right one?” Moses
Mendelson tells the story of a woman who came to a great teacher and asked him:
“Teacher, how do I know which religion is the right one?” The teacher replied
with a story of a great and wise King with three sons. This King had a precious
gift–a magic ring that gave him great compassion, generosity, and a spirit of
kindness. As he was dying, each of his sons went to him and asked the father
for the ring after his death. And he promised to each of the sons that he would
give him the ring. Now how could he possibly do that for all three sons? Here’s
what he did. Before he died he called in the finest jewelry maker of the land
and asked him to make two identical copies of the ring. After his death each of
his sons was presented with a ring. Well, it wasn’t long before each of the
sons figured out that his brothers also had a ring and therefore two of them
had to be fakes. Only one of them could be the genuine article. And so they
went before a judge and asked the judge to help them determine which was the authentic
ring. Then they could determine who the proper heir was. The judge, however,
could not distinguish among the three rings. And so he said: “We shall watch
and see which son behaves in the most gracious, generous, and kind manner. Then
we will know which possesses the original ring.” And from that day on, each son
lived as if he was the one with the magic ring, and no one could tell which was
the most gracious, generous, and kind. Then the teacher, having told this
story, said to the woman, “If you wish to know which religion is true, watch
and see which reveals God’s love for the world.” (Daniel E. H. Bryant) Fr.
Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
6) “He put his arms around me and just let me sob.” “Dear
Ann Landers, I am a 46-year-old woman, divorced, with 3 grown children. After
several months of chemotherapy following a mastectomy for breast cancer, I was
starting to put my life back together when my doctor called with the results of
my last checkup. They had found more cancer, and I was devastated. My relatives
had not been supportive. I was the first person in the family to have cancer
and they didn’t know how to behave toward me. They tried to be kind, but I had
the feeling they were afraid it was contagious. They called on the phone to see
how I was doing, but they kept their distance. That really hurt. Last Saturday
I headed for the Laundromat. You see the same people there almost every week.
We exchange greetings, and make small talk. So I pulled into the parking lot,
determined not to look depressed, but my spirits were really low. While taking
my laundry out of the car, I looked up and saw a man, one of the regulars,
leaving with his bundle. He smiled and said, ‘Good morning. How are you today?’
Suddenly I lost control of myself and blurted out, ‘This is the worst day of my
life! I have more cancer!’ Then I began to cry. “He put his arms around me and
just let me sob. Then he said, ‘I understand. My wife has been through it,
too.’ After a few minutes I felt better, stammered out my thanks, and proceeded
on with my laundry. About 15 minutes later, here he came back with his wife.
Without saying a word, she walked over and hugged me. Then she said, ‘I’ve been
there, too. Feel free to talk to me. I know what you’re going through.’ Ann, I
can’t tell you how much that meant to me. Here was this total stranger, taking
her time to give me emotional support and courage to face the future at a time
when I was ready to give up. Oh, I hope God gives me a chance to do for someone
else what that wonderful woman and her husband did for me. Meanwhile, Ann,
please let your readers know that even though there are a lot of hardhearted
people in this world, there are some incredibly generous and loving ones, too.”
(Dr. John Bardsley)Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
7) “Don’t do drugs and see what happens.” Michael
Brennan was a homeless man who spent most of his nights sleeping in a cemetery
near Harvard University. Brennan had used drugs since he was 13 and eventually
became addicted to heroin. In 1990 after a detoxification program, he went to
Boston determined to carve out a new life for himself. His motto was, “Don’t do
drugs and see what happens.” He worked part-time moving furniture, but when he
wasn’t working, like many homeless persons, he spent his time in the Boston
public library where it was warm and hospitable. Unlike many of his kind,
however, he began to take advantage of the library for more than a place to
hang out. Knowing things had become the goal of his life, and knowing that he
knew gave him a direction to pursue. From childhood, he had wanted to write. It
was a passion with him. He found books about freelance journalism. “I didn’t
even know where to put the address on a cover letter. I had to start with
that,” he said. Brennan learned all he could from how-to books in the library
and then started to write. One day he was in Cambridge wandering the campus of
Harvard University. He came across a room full of computers and asked a student
if could use one of them. The young man said, “sure,” and lent him some
software. It was this act of kindness, this treatment that gave him some
dignity, which Brennan says was crucial to his recovery. Treated with
compassion instead of scorn, he used the Harvard computers. His first major
article for a local newspaper netted him $1,000 which put a roof over his head.
Since that time he has had articles published in Newsweek and
other major magazines and papers as well as a book. (Dr. David Richardson). —
An unknown college student helped change this homeless man’s life. Wouldn’t you
like to make a difference in someone’s life like that? The word is love,
Christ-like love. Love like the love that sent Christ to die on a cross for
worthless folks like you and me.Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
8) Love your neighbor as you love yourself :
When William Penn was given land in the New World by King Charles II, he was
also granted power to make war on the Indians. But Penn refused to build forts
or have soldiers in his province. Instead, he treated the Indians kindly and as
equals. All disputes between the two races were settled by a meeting of six
white men and six Indians. When Penn died, the Indians mourned him as a friend.
After Penn’s death, other colonies were constantly under attack by the Indians.
Pennsylvania was free from such attacks, however, as long as they refused to
arm themselves. Many years later the Quakers were outvoted in the State, and
the colony began building forts and training soldiers against possible
aggression. You can guess what happened. They were immediately attacked. [Don
M. Aycock,
Walking Straight in a Crooked World (Nashville: Broadman Press,
1987).] — William Penn understood the key to all human relations is: Love your
neighbor as you love yourself. How difficult can it be to love your neighbor?
Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
9) You’ve got to be special to be in my class :
John Q. Baucom, in his book Baby Steps to Happiness, tells
about a teacher-training workshop he once conducted. He spoke to the teachers
about the power of self-esteem. One of the teachers came up with an ingenious
way of implementing it. At the beginning of the school year she would kneel and
whisper in her first graders’ ears, “You’ve got to be special to be in my
class. I only get the really smart students.” Each child reacted with pleasant
surprise upon discovering they were “special.” She ended up having far less
difficulty in her classroom than the other teachers. She also started receiving
phone calls from parents telling her they were glad someone finally recognized
their children were so smart! It turned out to be a win/win situation. Positive
self-esteem raised the children’s performance [“What Goes Up Must Come
Down,” Health/August 1996, (Kilsyth, Australia: Word Publishing,
1991), 102-103)], and we all need a degree of positive self-esteem. — Please
believe me when I say that I recognize the need for positive self-esteem. THE
ONLY PROBLEM IS THAT IT WON’T HELP US LOVE AS JESUS LOVED. Roy Baumeister, a
psychology professor at Case Western Reserve University in Ohio, has come to
the conclusion that too much self-esteem leads to bigger problems in society
not smaller problems. Positive self-love can be a healthy thing. Christ does
not intend for us to be doormats who let others walk all over us because we do
not value ourselves. Healthy self-love leads to self-acceptance, improved
performance in our work, and a feeling of peacefulness in life. BUT IT DOES NOT
CAUSE US TO LOVE OUR NEIGHBOR — NOT WITH THE KIND OF LOVE JESUS INTENDS. HERE
IS THE TRUTH OF THE MATTER: YOU CAN’T TRULY LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR UNTIL YOU LOVE
GOD. Why should I love my neighbor? Because I love God, and God has commanded
me to love my neighbor. And why should I love God? Because He has love me from
beore the beginning of Creation — so much that He sent His Only-begotten Son to
die for me that I might live!
10) Have any of you ever eaten coconut? Maybe
you’ve had coconut sprinkled on a cake, or on some ice cream. The coconut is a
very interesting food. Not only can the coconut be used for food, but every
single part of the coconut can be used for something. The hard outer shell can
be used for making bowls and cups. The oil inside the coconut can be used for
cooking. Inside the coconut is also the flaky “meat” part, and a lot of coconut
milk. These can be eaten and drunk. The wood of the coconut tree can be used
for building things, like houses and tools. And the husk fibers of the coconut
tree can be woven into baskets, ropes, rugs, and things like that. Every single
part of the coconut tree can be used for something useful. Have you ever
thought of yourself as a coconut? Well, that’s how I want you to think right
now. You see, this morning we’re going to talk about how we can use every
single part of ourselves. The Bible says that we should use every single part
of ourselves when we love God. — In our Bible story today, someone asks Jesus
what the most important commandment of all is. And Jesus says the most
important commandment is to love the Lord with all our heart, all our soul, all
our mind, and all our strength. And He also says that we must love our neighbor
as ourselves. So it sounds as though Jesus wants us use every single part of ourselves
to love God. Our heart, our soul, our mind, our strength: that’s everything.
And if we really love God, then we will love Him completely, with everything
we’ve got. Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
11) Transformation of Joe Paterno: I remember
being at West Virginia University in the early 1980’s. Penn State had defeated
WVU in football for about 25 years in a row. And Joe Paterno had this
reputation of being all grace, humility, and dignity in every one of the
victories. But then something unusual happened. WVU won. I was at that game. I
was one of the students that rushed the field to tear down the goalpost at the
one end of the field that the police allowed it. If I remember correctly, the
end of the game went like this: the outcome was decided, but there were 17
seconds left on the clock when the students rushed the field. Paterno threw a
fit. He insisted on having the field cleared for one more play, which was
insignificant. Penn State could not win. Coach Paterno told the officials that
he was OK with letting the time run out. The officials said that that game
needed to be completed. If the final 17 seconds were not played, then WVU would
have been fined. Coach Paterno could have let that happen but he did not.
Paterno took the loss hard and was no longer seen as a gracious gentleman, at
least in my eyes. You see, as long as he was winning, he appeared to be a
gentleman, but when the outcome wasn’t what he desired, his mean and
disagreeable side took control. — In the Scripture today, we have a story where
the two parties are agreeable; where the scribe takes comfort that Jesus’ words
line up with the scribe’s own words, beliefs, and teachings. Jesus does do
something new by elevating the love of neighbor here. He basically combined Dt
6:4 and part of Lv 19:18 into a summary of the law. (Rev. Scot Knowlton). Fr.
Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
12) The whisper test: In her book, The
Whisper Test, Mary Ann Bird shares a critical episode in her life. She was
born with a cleft palate. When she started school her classmates let her know
that she was different: a little girl with a misshapen lip, crooked nose,
lopsided teeth, and garbled speech. If they asked what happened to her lip, she
told them she fell and cut it on a piece of glass. For her, it felt more
acceptable to say that she’d been injured rather than being born different.
Along the way Mary Ann became convinced that no one outside her family could
love her. However, when she got to 2nd grade she was assigned to a teacher,
Mrs. Leonard, who was happy and sparkly, the kind of instructor all the kids
loved. Every year in school the students were required to take hearing test.
When the day came for Mary Ann to take hers, she was supposed to stand at a
distance, cover one ear, and listen closely for something the teacher would
whisper to her so she could repeat it back. Usually the teacher would say
something like “The sky is blue,” or “What color are your shoes?, but that day
Mrs. Leonard spoke seven words that changed a little girl’s life when she
whispered, “I wish you were my little girl.” At that moment she knew she was
loved just as she was, and her life was changed. — Love can do that. When you
know that someone loves you just as you are and demonstrates it in their words
and actions, it can change, it can transform your life. (Rev. Ken Larson). Fr.
Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
13) America’s Four Gods: How do you
think Americans today see God? In 2006 Baylor University published a survey of
attitudes toward religion, and one of the topics was people’s view of God and
how it affected their values, actions and attitudes. Two professors from Baylor
took the data and wrote a book titled, America’s Four Gods. They
found two key areas of belief among the respondents. First, some saw God as
distant and uncaring while others saw Him as engaged and active in people’s
lives. Second, some thought He was only loving and never judgmental while
others believe He does express His anger toward people and nations in this
life. Within these two broad categories, the authors identified four basic
attitudes toward God: 1) Authoritative – 31%. The
Authoritative God is very involved in the world to help people and judges evil
in this life. Still, He is loving, and is seen as a Father-figure. 2) Benevolent – 24%. The
Benevolent God is very involved in this world to help people, but does not feel
anger toward wrongdoers and does not judge anyone. 3) Critical – 16%. The
Critical God does not involve Himself in the affairs of this world or its
people, but does take careful note of how people live and judges them in the
afterlife, holding them to account for evils done. 4) Distant – 24%. The
Distant God is more a cosmic force or Higher Power than a person. This God
created everything but is no longer engaged with the world and does not judge
its inhabitants. Atheists comprise about 5% of the population.
(P. Froese & C. Bader, America’s Four Gods, Oxford, 2010) — If you examine
those statistics they tell us that 70% of the people in our society either
believe that God is out there somewhere, but detached and uninterested. Or is
like the bellhop at a hotel, there to pick up the baggage of life that’s too
heavy for us to hoist, but the rest of the time can be politely ignored if we
feel we’ve got things well in hand. (Rev. Ken Larson). Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
14) Tim Tebow’s secret of success: Tim Tebow, one of
our grandson’s heroes, is one of the most recognized names in sport. Do you
know who his role model was? Danny Wuerffel, the University of Florida
Quarterback who won the Heisman Trophy 11 years before Tebow. Wuerffel’s Faith
was always important to him, and now that he has retired from professional
football, he works for Desire Street Ministry, a Christian-based organization
that revitalizes impoverished neighborhoods. About the time he retired, he was
asked to write a book on how he had become so successful. He sent in his five
tips on success and the publisher sent them right back saying, “These sound a
lot like other people’s tips on success. We want tips that reflect on you, so
go deep within yourself and tell us what makes you, Danny Wuerffel, successful.”
After pondering it awhile, he realized that there is a voice inside of him. If
he approaches a door, the voice says, “You’re going through that door. You’re
so strong that even if it is bolted shut, you’ll knock it down.” And whenever
he faced a test in school, the voice said, “You are so smart, you can ace this
test.” And he was, in fact, a scholar as well as an athlete. And when he was on
the field, the voice said, “Danny, you are so fast, you can run like the wind.”
So, he thought to himself, “That’s it. Self-motivation. Make that voice speak.
That’s the key to my success.” About that time, he and his wife had their first
child, a little boy. His mother came over to their house and helped take care
of him. One day she was upstairs in the baby’s room walking around cradling her
grandson. Danny walked by the door, and he heard his mom’s voice say to his
son, “You are so strong! You’re the strongest baby in the world. You are so
smart. You’ll be such a wonderful student. And you are going to be so fast, as
fast as the wind!” Suddenly Danny realized what made him who he is, was the
voice of his mother. And coming through her voice was the whisper of God. —
These are the kind of things God whispers in our hearts. “You are strong; you
are smart; you can run like the wind.” And God whispers, “You are a beautiful
person; you are worthy of love; you are a blessing to the world.” Regrettably,
some people hear so many negative things about themselves that it deafens them
to the whispers of God. They hear the destructive words of a wounded human, and
they have trouble discerning the uplifting words of God. (Victor D. Pentz). Fr.
Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
15) To love our neighbors as ourselves: Don
McEvoy, as Senior Vice President of our National Conference of Christians and
Jews, was always in search of the reasons and remedies for Christian divisions.
Early in 1981, Don visited Northern Ireland – a land where political and
religious division is notorious. First, he went to the Protestant section of
Belfast, then to the Catholic section. The two sections are as segregated from
each other in idealogy and emotion as East and West Berlin. On Shankill Road in
the Protestant area, McEvoy talked with six Protestant teenagers – youngsters
who, like their Catholic fellow-Belfastians, have known nothing but political
and sectorian strife all their young lives. Then he went to Falls Road in the
Catholic neighborhood and talked to a half-dozen Catholic youths. To both
groups he presented the same questions. “What would happen to you,” he asked
the Protestant kids, “if you went to the Catholic part of town.” “We wouldn’t
get out alive.” they answered. “They really hate us. It’s unbelievable how much
they hate us.” And where did they get their ideas? “That’s the way we were
brought up! ” When he asked the Catholic kids of Falls Road what would happen
if they went to Shankill Road, they had the same answer. “They hate us. They
want to smash us. They’re out to get us, to kill us!” And where did they get
these ideas? “Just brought up this way. That’s the way it is!” Don’s final
question was “Will this problem ever be resolved?” Both groups gloomily agreed.
“No, it will never end!”– How shocking to hear Christian teen-agers accepting
hate as an unalterable fact of life. But their forebears are even more
responsible for their attitude. As the well-known song in South Pacific put
it, regarding traditional discrimination: “You have to be carefully taught!”
Christ’s rule, thus overlooked, is the opposite: “To love Him with all our
heart … and to love our neighbor as ourselves” is worth more than any burnt
offering (Mk 12, 33. Today’s Gospel). And the first step towards loving our
neighbors is to talk, not about him but to him. If we talk to our enemy, we
will most likely find that he is no monster but an ordinary frightened person
like ourselves. –(Father Robert F. McNamara). Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
16) “If you will restore my wife to freedom, I will give
you my life.” Following a great victory, King Cyrus of Persia took as
prisoners a noble prince, his wife, and their children. When they were brought
into the leader’s tent to stand before him, Cyrus said to the prince, “What
will you give me if I set you free?” He replied, “I will give you half of all
that I possess.” “And what will you give me if I release your children?”
continued Cyrus. “Your majesty, I will give you all that I possess.” The king
questioned him further, “But what will you give me if I set your wife at
liberty?” Looking at the one he loved so dearly, the prince replied without
hesitation, “If you will restore my wife to freedom, I will give you my life.”
Cyrus was so moved by his devotion that he released the entire family without
asking recompense. That evening the prince said to his wife, “Did you not think
Cyrus a very handsome man?” “I did not notice him,” she answered, “Why, my
dear, where were your eyes?” exclaimed her husband. She replied, “I had eyes
only for the one who said he would lay down his life for me.”) SNB Files). Fr.
Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
17) The true formula for joy: In English, we speak in
what is known as “person.” If I am referring to my self, I will say, “I am.”
That is known as the “first person.” If I were speaking to you, I might say,
“You are.” That is the “second person.” Then, it I were speaking of another, I
might say, “He is.” That is known as the “third person.” In English, we always
have self first. However, in Hebrew, it is just the opposite. First Person
says, “He is”; Second Person says, “You are”; Third Person says, “I am.” —
Therein is contained the formula for joy in this life. If we will learn to place
God in the first person, others in the second person and if we will be willing
to take the third person, then we will have our lives in order.) The true
formula for joy is: J – Jesus, O – Others, Y – Yourself). (SNB Files). Fr.
Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
18) Genuine love is sacrificial – In sixteenth
century England, Oliver Cromwell ordered that a soldier be shot for his crimes
at the ringing of the evening bell. But that night at the fateful hour, no
sound came from the belfry. The girl who was to be married to the condemned man
had climbed up into the tower and had clung to the great clapper of the bell to
prevent it from striking. Brought before Cromwell to give an account of her
actions, she only wept and showed him her bruised and bleeding hands. Cromwell
was greatly impressed, and he said, “Your lover is alive because of your
sacrifice. He will not be shot!” (SNB Files). Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
19) “I ain’t allowed to cross the street.” The 5-year-old boy became angry with his mother and decided to run away from home. He walked out of his house with a small suitcase and trudged around the block again and again. Finally, when it was beginning to grow dark, the policeman stopped him, “What’s the idea?” The little boy answered, “I’m runnin’ away.” The officer smiled as he said, “Look, I’ve had my eye on you, and you’ve been doing nothing but walking around the block. You call that running away?” The little fellow burst into tears, “Well, what do you want me to do? I ain’t allowed to cross the street!” — The youngster obviously respected his parents and knew that they loved him. He couldn’t really run away.Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
