3rd Week of Lent, Tuesday, Mar 5
Daniel 3:25, 34-43 / Matthew 18:21-35
Jesus speaks about forgiveness; "Forgive seventy-seven times."
Tommy Pigage was drunk when he hit and killed Ted Morris of Kentucky. Ted was the only son of Mrs. Elizabeth Morris. The death of her only son left Elizabeth stunned and angry.
Tommy pleaded guilty, was convicted, and was ordered to give talks to high school students on behalf Of MADD (Mothers Against Drunk Drivers) One day Elizabeth went to hear Tommy speak. She heard him say with heartfelt emotion that he "murdered Ted” and should be behind bars for what he did. Elizabeth said, "I didn't want my son's death to be totally in vain. And, in my heart, I knew that if he could, Ted would tell us to forgive Tommy.” Today Elizabeth and Tommy are friends.***
How forgiving are we toward others? "They who forgive most will be most forgiven." Joseph W Baily
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We don’t like too much—or not at all—to acknowledge it, but we have been forgiven a lot. Open, scandalous, upsetting sins... maybe not. Probably not. But scandalous in the sense of totally unexpected on the part of people who profess to be the sign of the Church, of Christ, of God... perhaps yes: antipathies, non-sharing, animosities, enmities nurtured for years, living side-by-side without genuine love and sharing, maybe yes... and to many or at least some the opposite of witnessing to what we profess to be, yes... Where is our forgiving others as God has forgiven us, as we pray in the Lord’s Prayer?
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A man lay on his deathbed. Having held public office, though never any major ones, he had experienced how a politician's motives and actions are open to the sometimes-erroneous judgment of others. Despite his good intentions, he had made many enemies. After his confession, he said to the priest, "Father, I am grateful for one thing, that I will be judged by God and not by my fellow men."
The dying man had a point. Though we may fear to stand before God as our judge, we must remember that God is not only infinitely wise and powerful but also infinitely merciful. His mercy exceeds any mercy a human being could possibly manifest. Notice in today's parable a detail you may have overlooked. The official, who owed the huge amount, pleaded with the master only for a delay; he said, "My lord, be patient with me and I will pay you back in full." The master not only heeded the plea but granted even more than the official dared ask: "Moved with pity, the master let the official go and wrote off the debt."
The master of course represents God, who wishes to write off our debt of sin completely, but he will do so only if we learn to forgive those who have offended us. When our brother has wronged us, how often must we forgive him? Jesus says, "Seventy times seven times," that is, without any limit. When we are tempted to feel that enough is enough, maybe it will help to remember that any injury done to us is trifling in comparison with the sins we have committed against God, as the gospel says, a mere fraction. Like the dying man, we too can be grateful that we are judged by God, but only if we have learned to forgive our brothers without limit from our hearts.
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Liturgy:
Introduction
We don’t like too much – or not at all – to acknowledge it, but we have been forgiven a lot. Open, scandalous, upsetting sins... maybe not. Probably not. But scandalous in the sense of totally unexpected on the part of people who profess to be the sign of the Church, of Christ, of God... perhaps yes: antipathies, non-sharing, animosities, enmities nurtured for years, living side-by-side without genuine love and sharing, maybe yes... and to many or at least some the opposite of witnessing to what we profess to be, yes... Where is our forgiving others as God has forgiven us, as we pray in the Lord’s Prayer?
Opening Prayer
Lord our God, we consider ourselves your chosen flock, the people who profess to be your sign of reconciliation. God, how poor we are! How often we fail you by forgiving by an act of condescension as if we did a great favor to those who sought to be reconciled with us. Lord, help us to forgive the way and to the extent that you forgive us: unconditionally and totally, in the goodness of our hearts. Give us this greatness of heart through Jesus Christ our Lord.
Intercessions
– That we may be patient with one another, as God has been patient with us, we pray:
– That we may forgive one another, as God has forgiven us, we pray:
– That we may keep loving one another, as God keeps loving us even when we have repeatedly hurt his love, we pray:
Prayer over the Gifts
Merciful Father, we welcome your Son in these signs of bread and wine as the Lord of forgiveness who laid down his life for us. May we, whom you call your chosen ones, beloved and called to be holy, be found ready to forgive willingly, notwithstanding antipathies and hurt feelings, that we may be to one another the sign of your forgiveness which goes beyond our human feelings, as followers of Jesus Christ, our Lord.
Prayer after Communion
Lord, it is beautiful but hard to be the body of your Son, the sign of forgiveness and life that he brings to the world. But give us the courage, notwithstanding and beyond our all too human feelings, sympathies, and antipathies, to bring to all around us your message of love, tolerance, peace, and joy, which you have given us here again through the body and blood of Jesus Christ our Lord.
Blessing
We are people who have received forgiveness from the Lord, and, hopefully at times also from people. We should know also how to forgive, so that our praying to the Our Father may be truthful. May almighty God bless you, the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit.
Commentary
Power of the Keys: Jesus had just spoken about the lost sheep, and the need to win back a sinful sibling. Peter got the point—we must be generously merciful. But to what extent? So, he asks: How many times should I forgive? Seven times? After all, Peter held the keys! What good is key if it cannot lock some people in and some people out? Power does not feel like power until it draws a limit and excludes it. But Jesus dismisses the limits and leaves them open-ended: “seventy times seven” meaning, unlimited! What Peter forgot is that the key can also be used to open the shut doors to let people in and let people free! Jesus wants Peter to use the keys to leave his Church eternally open! Ask yourself: Am I holding anyone to ransom by the negative power of my keys?
