In the first reading from the book of Kings we hear the
story of the widow, whom Elijah meets in the town of Sodom, which is
experiencing a famine. Now the prophet requests her for a little water and a
meal. The widow has only a little left for herself and her son. The widow does
not first ask: "Will you ask God for a special blessing on me if I give
you this meal?" She is just ready to give up everything and die! Her total
generosity is blessed by God's equally generous gift: she will never more know
need. We can never outdo our God in generosity. Everything we give comes back
to us in double measure, though the motive of our giving should not be that we
should receive with interest! That would be business!
A priest once asked one of his parishioners to serve as
financial chairman of his parish. The man, manager of a grain elevator, agreed
on two conditions: no report would be due for a year, and no one would ask any
questions during the year. At the end of the year he made his report. He had
paid off the church debt of $200,000. He had redecorated the church. He had
sent money to missions. He had $5,000 in the bank. Needless to say, everyone
wanted to know how. The man quietly explained, "You people bring your
grain to my elevator. As you did business with me, I simply withheld 10 percent
and gave it to the church. You never missed it."
David E. Leininger, The View from Jesus' Pew
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2. Giving Till It Hurts
Don't give till it hurts. Give till it helps. The story is
told of a very wealthy man who had never been known for his generosity to the
church. The church was involved in a big financial program and they resolved to
pay him a visit. When the committee met with the man one afternoon, they said
that in view of his considerable resources they were sure that he would like to
make a substantial contribution to this program.
"I see," he said, "so you have it all figured
out have you? In the course of your investigation did you discover that I have
a widowed mother who has no other means of support but me?" No, they
responded, they did not know that. "Did you know that I have a sister who
was left by a drunken husband with five children and no means to provide for
them?" No, they said, we did not know that either. "Well, sir, did
you know also that I have a brother who is handicapped due to an automobile
accident and can never work another day to support his wife and
family?"
Embarrassingly, they responded, no sir, we did not know that
either. "Well," he thundered triumphantly, "I've never given any
of them a cent so why should I give anything to you?"
Like that man, most of us never give till it hurts or helps.
It is interesting to me that people who tithe in the church never speak of it
as hurting. My wife and I tithe and it has not made life painful for us in the
least. We started discussing some days ago what our pledge to the church for
next year would be and how we could increase it. That doesn't sound like it
hurts does it? It is the grudging giver, who is the one who always registers
the complaint: At that church all they talk about is money." So let us get
off of this notion of give till it hurts so that we affirm we give till it
helps.
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3. Humor: Now That I Have Your Undivided Attention
A businessman who needed millions of dollars to clinch an
important deal went to the temple to pray for the money. By chance he sat next
to a man who was praying for $100 to pay an urgent debt.
The businessman took out his wallet and pressed $100 into
the other man's hand. Overjoyed, the man got up and left the temple. The
businessman then closed his eyes and prayed: "And now, Lord, that I have
your undivided attention . . ."
Traditional. Told by Billy Strayhorn
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4. The Widow's Mite for $39.95
An advertisement I ran across read: "Now you too can
own a Genuine Coin From The Time of Jesus: The Widow's Mite. It's a minor
miracle that this coin has survived and now people of faith can study, cherish,
and protect it for future generations. It's yet another miracle that they're so
affordable."
Then, the ad goes on to quote the Scripture we just heard,
"While our limited supplies last, you may order the 2,000 year old Widow's
Mite for only $39.95 plus shipping and handling. Remember this is the genuine
coin mentioned in the Holy Bible and it makes a perfect gift for your child,
grandchild, or favorite clergyman."
The advertisement makes it sound like your buying the actual
coin the widow dropped into the receptacle. Of course, you are not. It doesn't
exist. Harder still is to purchase the woman's attitude of generosity, which is
of greater value in today's market.
Brett Blair
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5. It's How You Give
braham Lincoln, was once hired by a man to sue someone else
because they owed him $2.50. Not a large amount, but in the l860's it was.
Lincoln didn't want to take the case but his client insisted. So Abe asked for
a $l0.00 retainer fee up front. His client handed him the $l0. Lincoln then
gave the man who owed $2.50 half of the ten. The man promptly paid his debt and
everyone went home happy. It's not what you give, it is HOW you give. God wants
us to give of ourselves joyfully without expecting anything in return.
Keith Wagner
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6. I Have a Dollar
The Junior Sunday School Teacher asked her eight eager
children if they would give $1,000,000 to the missionaries. "YES!"
they all screamed!! "Would you give $1,000?" Again they shouted,
"YES!" "How about $100?" "Oh, YES we would!" they
all agreed!! "Would you give just a dollar to the missionaries?" she
asked. The boys exclaimed "YES!" just as before except for Johnny.
"Johnny," the teacher said as she noticed the boy clutching his
pocket, "why didn't you say 'YES' this time?" "Well," he
stammered, "I HAVE a dollar."
Traditional
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The danger of pride is that it feeds on goodness.
Traditional
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7. A Symbol of Hope
Ruele Howe tells about growing up with his parents in the
country. When he was 15 years old, the house caught on fire. They escaped with
only the clothes on their backs. There were no close neighbors to help so he
and his father walked to a distant village to get supplies. As they returned
they saw something that stayed with Ruele Howe all those years after. Beside
the charred remains of what had been their house, his mother had laid out lunch
on a log. She had placed a tin can filled with wildflowers on the log. It was a
symbol of hope in the midst of tragedy.
This is the Christian faith, isn't it? She didn't try to
cover up the disaster with flowers, but in the midst of that gloomy scene she
had placed a symbol of hope.
These two coins that the widow placed in the temple treasury
were her wildflowers. This was her symbol, her way of saying I know God will
provide.
King Duncan
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8. Who Is Important?
It's easy to become confused about who's important in our
society. We are encouraged to think of celebrities as most important.
Television shows are devoted to their lives, and magazines and newspapers keep
us informed of their every move. The movers and the shakers, too, are touted as
important. Imagine how powerful the chairman of the Federal Reserve is! With a
single sentence in a speech he can send the stock market plummeting. These are
the people we are taught to regard as important.
In the meantime many of our elderly waste away in nursing
homes, forgotten even by their families. They don't make the news, aren't
featured in magazines and newspapers, and are regarded simply as society's
"throw-always." Thankfully widows today do not have the meager social
status they had in Jesus' time. However, it is not hard to find contemporary
parallels to the poor widow of this story. Just consider the homeless people in
our communities.
Robert Kysar
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9. Cordially Yours
I'm reminded of the story of the young soldier who was
overseas. He was writing his girlfriend. He wanted to send her a telegram
because he thought that would make more of an impression. So he gave the
telegraph operator a message to send. The message was this: "I love you. I
love you. I love you. John."
1: Widow’s mite and Sts. Elizabeth Ann Seton, Jeanne Jugan’s & St Teresa of Calcutta (Mother Teresa)’s mites: It is now well known how God transformed the humble mite of the widow St. Elizabeth Ann Seton, and religious sisters St. Jeanne Jugan and St. Teresa of Calcutta to revolutionize the field of teaching and caring for the sick, the poor, and the discarded people all around the world. God empowered Elizabeth Ann Seton the young and bankrupt, 30-year-old widow with five children to start the first Catholic parochial school, the first Catholic orphanage and the first indigenous religious order for women (Sisters of Charity in 1809) in the U. S. The growth of the parochial school system and orphanages is now history. Thirty years later in 1839 God blessed the humble mite of a French single working woman, Jeanne Jugan, to assemble a group of kind-hearted women as what became a religious congregation, the Little Sisters of the Poor so they could take care of the abandoned poor, sick, and dying homeless people. The Congregation spread to many many countries and still operates worldwide, and in 26 U. S. dioceses. Mother Teresa who left the Sisters of Loreto in Calcuttta, India, to care for the poor, the sick the dying, and the marginalized in 1948, once she had been trained at the Little Sisters of the Poor in Calcutta and and complete a short course in nursing with the Medical Mission Sisters. She founded the Missionaries of Charity religious order in 1949. God blessed her mite, and before her death the Missionaries grew to 4500 Sisters and Brothers, 755 homes for the children, the sick, the destitute and the dying and 1,369 medical clinics that serve 120,000 worldwide. Today’s first reading as well as the Gospel, by citing the examples of two widows, challenge us to surrender our lives to God, sacrificially serving others. Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
2: A widow’s mite in the life of St. Elizabeth Ann Seton. By birth and marriage, Mother Elizabeth Ann Seton was linked to the first families of New York and enjoyed the fruits of living in high society. Reared a staunch Episcopalian by her mother and stepmother, she learned the value of prayer, Scripture reading, and a nightly examination of conscience. At 19, Elizabeth was the belle of New York. She married a handsome, wealthy businessman, William Magee Seton. They had five children before his business failed, and William died of tuberculosis. At 30, Elizabeth found herself widowed and penniless, with five small children to support. While in Italy with her dying husband, Elizabeth had witnessed the Catholic Church in action, through the lives, beliefs and behavior of family friends. Three basic elements in Catholicism led her to become a Catholic in March 1805: a belief in the Real Presence of Jesus Christ in the Eucharist, a devotion to the Blessed Virgin Mary as Mother of God, and a conviction that the Catholic Church traced its origin and priesthood in a direct line back to the apostles and to Christ. When Elizabeth returned to the U. S., many of her family and friends rejected her because she had become a Catholic. To support her children, she opened a school in Baltimore with the cooperation of some of her friends. From the beginning, her group was organized along the lines of the religious community which would only be founded officially in 1809. Mother Seton became one of the keystones of the American Catholic Church. She founded the first American religious community for women, the Sisters of Charity. She opened the first American parish school and established the first American Catholic orphanage. All this she did in the span of 46 years while rearing her five children. She died on January 4, 1821, and was buried and a presence in Emmitsburg, Maryland. In 1963, Mother Seton was beatified, the first American-born citizen to receive this honor. She was canonized in 1975. Elizabeth Ann Seton was a real widow who offered her mite to God without reservation as the poor widow in today’s Gospel did (Adapted from St. Anthony’s Messenger). Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
3: St. Jeanne Jugan’s mite: St. Jeanne Jugan was the Mother Teresa of her time. It is probably no coincidence, either, that St. Teresa of Calcutta spent several of her formative years in India with the Little Sisters of the Poor before founding the Sisters of Charity. The congregation of the Little Sisters of the Poor was founded in France in 1839 by a humble woman named Jeanne Jugan, who opened her own home to a blind elderly woman who had nowhere else to go. From this simple act of charity grew a movement — and then a full-throttle religious order dedicated to taking care of the needs of the elderly poor, doing so with complete and absolute faith that God would provide all the resources necessary to carry out that mission in thirty countries. In 1868, the Little Sisters of the Poor landed in Brooklyn., New York. There were no planned giving departments, no Little Sisters of the Poor annuities to be purchased for a donation, just the sustaining providence of God and the generosity of friends and strangers. For 150 years, since first setting foot in New York, the sisters have experienced firsthand how God and all those friends and strangers have graced them, as they now have a presence in 26 dioceses across the United States. Each of their Homes becomes a place where the charism of hospitality that moved and inspired St. Jeanne in 1839 continues worldwide, and each Home provides a place in which elderly and impoverished souls find love, compassion, and the face of Jesus through the acts of dedicated consecrated women and equally devoted staff. Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
4: St. Teresa of Calcutta (Mother Teresa)’s mite: Consider David Porter’s comment on Mother Teresa: “She was born as Agnes Gonxha Bojaxhiu, to Albanian parents in Yugoslavia. She went to India in 1929 as a member of the Loreto Order of nuns, after learning English in their Motherhouse in Dublin, Ireland. She taught in India for 17 years and became the principal of the school. In 1946, she received her ‘call within a call’ to work with the poorest of the poor. By 1948, she had received permission to leave the Loreto order and had trained in the nursing skills she would need to carry out her calling. She prayed, “Oh God, if I cannot help these people in their poverty and their suffering, let me at least die with them, close to them, so that I can show them your love” [Mother Teresa: The Early Years, 67; cited by Caroline J. Simon, “The Media and Mother Teresa,”
Perspectives, 12 (March 1997), 3.] Simon notes: “From this simple beginning, the Missionaries of Charity have grown to include 4,500 Sisters and Brothers, 755 homes for the children, the sick, the destitute and the dying and 1,369 medical clinics that serve 120,000 worldwide.” Mother Teresa’s mite has might, and it’s the ever-growing might of love in action. Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
5) Superhero from Birmingham, Alabama: The story of Austine Perine from Birmingham Alabama would give you chills. The four-year-old African American boy was watching Animal Planet with his father when a mother Panda abandons her cub and walks away. Austin's dad remarked that the cub would become homeless. Austin was moved with pity for the cub when he learned from the dad that being homeless meant not having a home to stay in and not receiving the care of a dad and mom. On a later date, Austin’s dad, TJ Perine took him to a homeless shelter in the city at his request to see what it means to be homeless. When Austin saw people looking hungry and tired, he asked his dad if they could give them his Burger King chicken sandwich. His father had not prepared for that, but he couldn’t but respond to Austin’s recommendation to feed the homeless. After that, Austin requested that the parents convert the money for his toys to buying chicken sandwiches for the homeless. Every week, the superhero who is also known as “President Austin,” would dress up in a blue top and pants with a red cape and visit the homeless to hand them food and would always say to them “remember to show love.” Soon he became phenomenal in the city and later in the country. Soon the Austins started getting support from people and organizations including a $1,000 monthly allowance from Burger King to feed the homeless every week.
6: You know the old joke about the chicken and the pig that saw the church sign saying “Help feed the hungry.” The chicken said “That’s a good idea! Let’s help by putting in our ‘widow’s mite.’ Let’s give ham and eggs.” The pig said, “That’s easy for you to say, but for me, it’s a total commitment!”
7: A six-year-old boy, home from his first day at Church, was asked what he thought of the Holy Mass. “It was OK,” he replied, “but I think it was unfair that the pastor at the altar did all the work, and then a bunch of other people came around and took away all the money.” Amen to that small lad’s insight!
# 3: A colleague once told how “a certain woman phoned her personal banker to arrange for the disposal of a $1,000 bond. The voice on the phone asked for clarification, “Is the bond for conversion or redemption?” The confused woman paused and then inquired, “Am I talking to the bank or the church?”
8. Kids! Aren’t they great? Recently I visited all our Prep classrooms. In the 2nd grade, the teacher introduced me as Father Eschbach. I asked the kids why I was called Father. A number raised their hands and I pointed to one little guy who was really excitedly waving his hand. He promptly said, “Because you’re old!” I knew I was walking in troubled waters, but I doubled down and asked why I was wearing this white collar. A sweet little girl didn’t even bother raising her hand, she simply announced, “Because it prevents fleas and ticks for up to six months.” Really, I don’t know when to quit when I’m behind. So I asked another little girl what she was doing. She said, “I’m drawing God.” I said, “Wow, that’s really great, but no one has ever seen God. We don’t know what God looks like.” She continued drawing and without even looking up, she said, “You will in a minute.” (Fr. Eschbach).
2) Mr Harakhchand Sawla’s mite:
(http://jeevanjyot.in/design/white/about.html) A young man in his thirties used to stand on the footpath opposite the famous Tata Cancer Hospital at Mumbai and stare at the crowd in front, fear plainly written upon the faces of the patients standing at death’s door; their relatives with equally grim faces running around. These sights disturbed him greatly. Most of the patients were poor people from distant towns. They had no idea whom to meet, or what to do. They had no money for medicines, not even food. The young man, heavily depressed, would return home. ‘Something should be done for these people’, he would think. He was haunted by the thought day and night. At last he found a way. He rented out his own hotel that was doing good business and raised some money. From these funds he started a charitable activity right opposite Tata Cancer Hospital, on the pavement next to Kondaji Building. He himself had no idea that the activity would continue to flourish even after the passage of 27 years. The activity consisted of providing free meals for cancer patients and their relatives. Many people in the vicinity approved of this activity. Beginning with fifty, the number of beneficiaries soon rose to hundred, two hundred, three hundred. As the numbers of patients increased, so did the number of helping hands. As years rolled by, the activity continued, undeterred by the change of seasons, come winter, summer or even the dreaded monsoon of Mumbai. The number of beneficiaries soon reached 700. Mr Harakhchand Sawla, for that was the name of the pioneer, did not stop here. He started supplying free medicines for the needy. In fact, he started a medicine bank, enlisting voluntary services of three doctors and three pharmacists. A toy bank was opened for kids suffering from cancer. The ‘Jeevan Jyot’ trust founded by Mr Sawla now runs more than 60 humanitarian projects. Sawla, now 57 years old, works with the same vigour. A thousand salutes to his boundless energy and his monumental contribution! — There are people in this country who look upon Sachin Tendulkar as ‘God’- for playing 200 test matches in 20 years, a few hundred one-day matches, and scoring 100 centuries and 30,000 runs. But hardly anyone knows Harakhchand Sawla, let alone calls him ‘God’ for feeding free lunches to 10 to 12 lac cancer patients and their relatives. We owe this discrepancy to our mass media! God resides in our vicinity. But we, like mad men run after ‘god-men’, styled variously as Bapu, Maharaj or Baba. All Babas, Maharajs and Bapus become multi-millionaires, but our difficulties, agonies and disasters persist unabated till death. For the last 27 years, millions of cancer patients and their relatives have found ‘God’, in the form of Harakhchand Sawla. Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
3) The Operation Smile mite: Consider William Magee, 52, and Kathleen Magee, 51, founders of Operation Smile. One is a plastic surgeon and the other a social service worker. Op Smile began in 1982. Since then, it has performed surgery on 18,000 kids in 15 countries to correct — without charge — such disfigurements as cleft palates and burn scars, while training local doctors in the procedures. Says William: “The world is changed by emotion.” — On June 20, 1996, the Conrad N. Hilton Foundation awarded the group a $1 million prize to continue the work. William and Kathleen Magee’s mite has might, and it’s the might of love. Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
4) The poorest state in the U.S. is the most charitable: An interesting study appeared on p. 17 in the January 13, 2003, issue of Time magazine. It was a study ranking each of the 50 states’ personal income levels as compared to their rate of charitable giving. The results were surprising. Massachusetts, with the fourth highest personal income in the country ranked last in charitable contributions. The citizens of New Hampshire ranked 6th overall in average personal income, but ranked 45th in the percentage of their income given to charitable causes. On the other end of the spectrum, the citizens of Mississippi ranked 49th in average personal income, the second poorest state in the nation. Yet, Mississippians ranked 6th in the nation in their percentage of charitable giving. It also ranked first in actual dollars contributed. In Mississippi, forty-ninth in income, Mississippians gave, on average, about forty percent more to charity than did their Yankee cousins! — The more you have, the less you give. What that reflects is your values. Converted to percentage of income contributed to charity, the disparity was even greater. Another fact emerged: Wealthy people tend to give more to secular charities than to religious institutions. Poorer families give mostly to religious institutions and their social ministries. What’s going on? Are lower income families more generous or more religious? Do rich people see more direct benefit to their well-being from museums, colleges, or concerts than from worship, outreach, and fellowship at their churches? Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
5) “All that I have today is what I gave away.” In 1930, George Pepperdine, who was the owner of Western Auto, sold all of his Western Auto stock and went to Los Angeles. He endowed a college for three million dollars it was named Pepperdine College. Everyone thought that college was secure forever. A $3 million endowment in 1930! But as the years passed, it became hemmed in there in Watts in the heart of L.A. I think there was only 15 acres of campus. Dr. Binowski, a young president came to Pepperdine with a great dream. He raised 100 million dollars and moved to that college to a hundred acres of the most-beautiful property in Southern California – Malibu, overlooking the Pacific Ocean. The college has become a great university, with the name Pepperdine University. It has a huge endowment, a growing student body and an expanding national reputation. George Pepperdine, in 1930, would have never dreamed of the legacy he would leave the world. In 1950, George Pepperdine made some unfortunate investments, and lost everything. — In 1962, he was virtually broke, except for Pepperdine College, now Pepperdine a university. Pepperdine wrote a book entitled, Faith is My Future. The opening sentence of that book is, “All that I have today is what I gave away.” Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
6) Evie Rosen’s mite: Evie Rosen, 69, of Wausau, Wisconsin, is no doubt busy right now, knitting afghans. The reason: Winter is almost upon us, and someone is going to need a blanket. Evie is a retired needlework shop owner. Disheartened by news stories about the homeless, Rosen wanted to do something to help. “Almost every home has little balls of yarn. I thought if we could all knit 7-inch by 9-inch rectangles, we could stitch them together and make a lot of afghans.” — She started Operation Warm Up America in 1992, getting the word out to churches, retirement homes and craft shops. Last year, with help from other organizations, the group distributed 16,000 afghans! Evie Rosen’s mite has might, and it’s the might of love!Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
7) Norm and Lori Nickel’s mite: Norm and Lori Nickel of Abottsford, British Columbia, wanted to offer their services as a family to help others. So, with four of their children, they took three weeks off in the summer last year to work with SOAR (Sold Out and Radical, Youth Mission International’s teen program). They were placed in Reedley, California, where they worked with an organization called Community Youth Ministries that had been able to get into a Hispanic apartment complex housing 2,000 mostly illegal immigrants, 1,500 of whom were kids. They did Vacation Bible School, sports camps, drama and various other activities with the children. Lori says: “I could feel God working through our hands as we played with the children, our mouths as we verbally shared his love, and our eyes and ears as we saw and heard their hurts and pains. Just to think that God had set our family apart for three weeks so that He could convey His love and compassion to hurting people was life-changing for me.” — Norm and Lori Nickel’s mite has might, and it is the might of love! Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
8) Paul’s mite has might: Paul Beyer calls it “the Lord’s work.” Beyer lives in Leola, Pennsylvania. Every week for 35 years he has driven a truck to New York City, a six-hour round trip, to deliver food to the Bowery Mission, located in one of the seedier sections of Manhattan. His truck is loaded with produce, canned meats and pastries which the Mennonite farmers and businesses near his town have donated. He says that people trust him with the food he takes and that the reward is to see all the happy faces when the food arrives. — Paul’s mite has might, and it’s the might of love! Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
9) Mite of volunteers: In Santa Monica, California, volunteer pilots can fly with Angel Flight, an organization that helps the disadvantaged get to places where they can get the appropriate medical diagnosis and treatment. In 1995-1996, over 9,000 volunteers assisted the Red Cross in local relief efforts around the country. In Toronto, if you are a youth 16-24, you qualify to be placed with another youth aged 6-15 suffering from emotional, behavioral and social problems in a program called Youth Assisting Youth. The program has a phenomenal success rate of 98 percent in keeping kids in school and out of the criminal justice system. Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
10) When Giving Becomes a Sacrifice: St. Teresa of Calcutta (Mother Teresa) said, “If you give what you don’t need, it isn’t giving.” She used to tell a story of how one day she was walking down the street when a beggar came up to her and said, “Mother Teresa everybody is giving to you, I also want to give to you. Today for the whole day I got only fifteen rupees (thirty cents). I want to give it to you.” Mother Teresa thought for a moment: “If I take the thirty cents, he will have nothing to eat tonight, and if I don’t take it I will hurt his feelings. So I put out my hands and took the money. I have never seen such joy on anybody’s face as I saw on the face of that beggar at the thought that he too could give to Mother Teresa.” She said that gift meant more to her than winning the Nobel Prize. Mother Teresa went on: “It was a big sacrifice for that poor man, who had sat in the sun the whole day long and received only thirty cents. — Thirty cents is such a small amount and I can get nothing with it, but as he gave it up and I took it, it became like thousands because it was given with so much love. God looks not at the greatness of the work, but at the love with which it is performed.” (Flor McCarthy in New Sunday & Holy Day Liturgies). Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
11) “So why should I do anything for you?” There is a story told of a wealthy man who had never been what anyone would call a generous giver. His Church was having a big expansion program and financial campaign, so they resolved to visit him. In order to succeed where they had so often failed, they appointed a committee to study the situation. Finally the committee called on the prospect and told him that in view of his resources they were sure that he would want to make a rather substantial contribution. “I see,” he said, “that you have considered it all quite carefully. In the course of your investigation did you discover that I have an aged, widowed mother who has no other means of support?” No, they hadn’t known that. “Did you know that I have a sister who was left by a drunken husband with five small children and no means of providing for them?” No, they hadn’t known that. “Did you know that I have a brother who was crippled in an accident and will never be able to do another day’s work in his life to support himself and his family?” No, they hadn’t known that. “Well,” he thundered triumphantly, “I’ve never done anything for them, so why should I do anything for you?” (Ray Balcomb, Stir What You’ve Got). — That makes the point in a sadistically humorous way. It’s not a matter of giving ‘til it hurts, but giving ‘til it helps. To be sure, like that man, most of us never give ‘til it hurts, much less giving ‘til it helps. Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
12) “I would give it to the poor.” A government social worker was visiting New England farms. He had the authority to give federal dollars to poor farmers. He found an elderly widow farming a few acres. Her house was clean but tiny. There did not appear to be much food in the house. The windows had no screens to keep out the summer flies. The exterior needed a paint job. He wondered how she could survive. He asked, “What would you do if the government gave you five hundred dollars?” Her answer was, “I would give it to the poor.” — Do most Catholics give a fair share of their income to the Church and to charities? A Gallup poll answered that query. In a recent year, American Catholics gave 1.3% of their income to parish and charities. But Protestants gave 2.4% and Jews 3.8%. A survey reveals while 44% of Baptists tithe giving to their parishes and charities, only 4% of Catholics do. Many Catholics are more generous to waiters than to God. They give up to 20% of their bill. That is double-tithing. Our comparative tightness with our dollars comes despite Rousseau’s admonition. “When a man dies, he carries in his hands only that which he has given away.” (Fr. James Gilhooley). Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
13) Widow’s mite in the Old Testament: Elijah had to flee, went off to the desert, east of the Jordan, where there was even less food and no water. He was fed by ravens, until God sent him to a widow in a little desert village named Zarephath. That’s all we know about her: to us, she is the otherwise nameless widow of Zarephath. Elijah meets her as she’s gathering sticks for fuel to cook the last of her food for herself and her son. He asks her for a drink of water and she goes to get it, when he asks to bring back a bit of bread with the water. . She replies, “All I have is some barley meal and a cruse of oil. I’m about to make bread for myself and my son. When we have eaten that, we shall die.” He told her to do that, but first to make bread for him. She does so; she shares what she has for herself and her son with Elijah, shares out of her poverty, because he’s in need. And behold, there is just enough for him, her and her son, a “just enough” that continues until the rains come and the famine ends, a whole year! — It’s a miracle. It’s the miracle that happens when you give all you have in trust. It wasn’t much, but when she gave there was enough, and God kept her supplies from running out until the drought and famine finally ended. Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/). Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
14) “They died from the cold within.”: Dr. Thomas Lane Butts tells the story of six people who froze to death around a campfire on a bitterly cold night. Each had a stick of wood they might have contributed to the fire, but for reasons satisfactory to themselves each person refused to give what they had. A woman would not give her stick of wood because there was an African-American person in the circle. A homeless man would not give because there was a rich man there. The rich man would not give because his contribution would warm someone who was obviously shiftless and lazy. Another would not give his stick when he recognized one not of his particular religious faith. The African-American man withheld his piece of wood as a way of getting even with the whites for all they had done to him and his race. And the fire died as each person withheld his/her piece of fuel for reasons justifiable to them. This story was originally told in a poem that ends with these tragic lines: “Six logs held fast in death’s still hand was proof of human sin; They did not die from the cold without; they died from the cold within.” (Rev. Siegfried S. Johnson) –The wealthy people in our story were cold within, but this poor widow glowed with her love for God and for His Temple. Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
15) The Paradox of Our Time in History is that we spend more, but have less; we buy more, but enjoy it less. We have bigger houses and smaller families; more conveniences, but less time; more medicine, but less wellness. We read too little, watch TV too much and pray too seldom. We have multiplied our possessions but reduced our values. These are the times of tall men, and short character; deep profits, and shallow relationships. These are the days of two incomes, but more divorce; of fancier houses, but more broken homes. We’ve learned how to make a living, but not a life; we’ve added years to life, not life to years; we’re cleaning up the air but polluting the soul. Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
16) Widow’s mite necklace: Writer Angela Akers tells of traveling on American Airlines. Out of sheer boredom, she began flipping through the airplane shopping catalogue. These catalogues are perfect for bored passenger with too much money on their hands. They are filled with expensive doodads. Among the jewelry items, there was a necklace that caught Ms. Akers’ eye. It was labeled “The Widow’s Mite Necklace.” No, they weren’t kidding. Some jeweler had taken a mite, an ancient coin that was practically worthless in Jesus’ time, and coated it in sterling silver, then hung the trinket on a glittering, sterling silver chain. Or, for a few hundred dollars more, you could get that same necklace in 14 karat gold. — I wonder what Jesus would have thought of a gold-plated widow’s mite. Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
17) Supersize your vision and you will supersize your giving. John Maxwell tells us that during World War II parachutes were sewn by machine and packed by hand. It was a tedious, painstakingly repetitive process. Workers crouched over sewing machines and stitched for eight hours a day, producing an endless line of fabric, all the same, boring color. They folded, packed and stacked the parachutes. How could they maintain peak concentration in the midst of such boring labor? Every morning they met in a large group and were made to ask, “How would I feel if the parachute I am packing today were tomorrow strapped to the back of my son, my husband, my father, my brother?” — These workers worked sacrificially and uncomplainingly, because someone had helped them connect their little contribution to the larger picture, to the larger mission of saving lives. It’s easy to lose the larger picture of the Church’s mission in the day-to-day work of the Church. We need constantly to be reminded to connect what we are doing to the larger scope, the larger mission of the Church. Supersize your vision and you will supersize your giving. Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
18) Widow’s commitment: There was once a man who had a disabled leg, but he was determined to walk. And so every day he got up, he went out and he walked. Eventually he worked his way up to several miles a day. One day he was out in the countryside and for some reason he felt exhausted – far more than usual. He hoped someone might come along and offer him a ride. Sure enough, a friend of his came riding along on a racehorse and noticed that his crippled buddy seemed exhausted. His racehorse-riding friend naturally volunteered to loan the man his racehorse. “Just be careful, though, this is kind of a peculiar racehorse. He’s been trained a bit differently than normal. When you want him to go, you don’t say, ‘Gitty Up!’ you say, ‘Praise the Lord!’ He won’t move if you say, ‘Gitty Up!’ And once you get him going, if you want to speed up, just repeat, ‘Praise the Lord!’ And then, when you want him to stop, you don’t say ‘Whoa!’ You say, ‘Amen.’ If you remember that you won’t have any problem at all.” Grateful for his friend’s generosity the man mounted the racehorse, got comfortable in the saddle and said, “Praise the Lord” and the racehorse moved right out. Now that he was riding the man found that he was enjoying himself so he decided to take the scenic route home and speed the racehorse up a bit as he was going so he said again, “Praise the Lord!” As he came around a curve in a bend he saw a cliff where the bridge had been disassembled for repair. Quickly the man attempted to stop the racehorse, “Whoa!, Whoa!, Whoa!,” but the racehorse didn’t stop. He was getting closer and closer to the dangerous edge, but he just couldn’t think of the right word. He was now able to peer over the cliff and see just how far down it really was when – all of a sudden – the man was able to recall the right word to stop. “Amen!” he cried, and the racehorse stopped right on the brink of the cliff. Overjoyed, the man raised his hands toward the sky and shouted, “Praise the Lord!”– Friends, there’s something to glean from this story: commitment matters. Whether it’s the manner in which you ride a horse or the way in which stay faithful to God – commitment matters. Today’s Scripture reading from Mark is one of the most shining examples of commitment in all of Scripture, for today we are allowed a glimpse of the power of the widow’s mite. (Rev. Chris Perkins). Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
19) Someone to divide with: At the turn of the century, a man wrote in his diary the story of a young newsboy he met on a street near his home in London. It was well known in the neighborhood that the boy was an orphan. All attempts to place the boy in either an institution or a foster home were thwarted, because the boy refused each offer of help and ran away when attempts were made to confine him. ‘I can take care o’ myself jest fine, thank ye!” he would say to kindly old ladies who questioned whether he’d had his porridge that day. Indeed, he never looked hungry and his persistence at selling papers, load after load, gave the impression he spoke the truth. But the streets are a lonely place for a child to live, and the man’s diary reflects a conversation he had with the child about his living arrangements. As he stopped to buy his paper one day, the man bought a little extra time by fishing around in his pocket for coins and asked the boy where he lived. He replied that he lived in a little cabin in an impoverished district of the city near the riverbank. This was something of a surprise to the man. With more interest, he inquired, “Well, who lives with you?” The boy answered, “Only Jim. Jim is crippled and can’t do no work. He’s my Pal.” — Now clearly astounded that the child appeared to be supporting not only himself but also someone who was unable to contribute any income the man noted, ”You’d be better off without him?” The answer came with not a little scorn- a sermon in a nutshell: “No sir, I couldn’t spare Jim. I wouldn’t have nobody to go home to. An’ say, mister, I wouldn’t want to live and work with nobody to divide with, would you?” (Alice Gray in Stories for the Heart; quoted by Fr. Botelho).Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
20) “History will be kind to me!” When asked about the possible permanent damage the Watergate scandal would have upon his political career, Richard Nixon replied, “History will be kind to me!” Only time will tell if Mr. Nixon was right and if modern historians will assess his political accomplishments as great enough to outweigh his moral failures when they tell the story of his administration. Such was not the case, however, with the political leaders of Israel and Judah. When the Deuteronomic historian set about the task of recording the deeds of the kings of his people, he evaluated them using a very different set of criteria. Rather than praise their diplomacy or achievements in foreign affairs, he dealt with each of Israel’s and Judah’s kings according to their moral rectitude and fidelity to the Covenant and the Law. With the brief statement, “And he did evil before the Lord,” the overwhelming majority of the kings of Israel and Judah were written off as infidels and sinners. — Jesus too writes off in today’s Gospel the rich and proud Pharisees who displayed their generosity in the temple by contrasting them with the mite of the widow. (P.D. Sanchez). Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
21) A box full of loving kisses: Some time ago, a father punished his 3-year-old daughter for wasting a roll of gold wrapping paper. Money was tight, and he became infuriated when the child tried to decorate a box to put under the tree. Nevertheless, the little girl brought the gift to her father the next morning and said, “This is for you, Daddy.” He was embarrassed by his earlier overreaction, but his anger flared again when he found that the box was empty. He yelled at her, “Don’t you know that when you give someone a present, there’s supposed to be something inside of it?” The little girl looked up at him with tears in her eyes and said, “Oh, Daddy, it’s not empty. I blew kisses into the box. All for you, Daddy.” The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little girl, and he begged her forgiveness. He kept the gold box by his bed for years. Whenever he was discouraged, he would take out an imaginary kiss and remember the love of the child who had put it there. — We require total surrender to do such giving. The tragedy of our lives is that often we hold back some part of us. There are many barriers that block our total surrender to God: fear, pride, selfishness and confusion. It is time that we examined ourselves, and practiced our charity with an element of love and sacrifice. (Fr. Bobby).
22) “Find someone in need and do something to help that person.” Dr. Karl Menninger, the famous psychiatrist, once gave a lecture on mental health and afterward answered questions from the audience. “What would you advise a person do to,” asked one man, “if that person felt a nervous breakdown coming on?” Most people expected the doctor to reply, “Consult a psychiatrist.” To their astonishment, he replied, “Lock up your house, go across the highway, find someone in need and do something to help that person.” –The Gospel message for this Sunday is about giving. Christ praises the poor widow who drops only two small coins in the coffer of the Temple, unlike the others who “put in their surplus money’” (v. 43). The poor widow received the praise of Jesus because she put her last money, though she was poor. As Jesus said: “she gave all she had to live on.” The message of Jesus is very clear: Every person is capable of sharing no matter how poor or needy he is. (Fr. Benitez). Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
23) “You called me your bother.” Walking along a street in Russia during a famine, the great writer Leo Tolstoy met a beggar. Tolstoy searched in his pockets to look for something he could give. But there was none. He had earlier given away all his money. In his pity, he reached out, took the beggar in his arms, embraced him, kissed him on his hollow checks and said: “Don’t be angry with me, my brother, I have nothing to give.”– The beggar’s face lit up. Tears flowed from his eyes, as he said: “But you embraced me and kissed me. You called me brother – you have given me yourself – that is a great gift.” (Fr. Benitez). Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
24) You are welcome! One-night years ago, a cloudburst stranded a newly-wed couple on a remote country road. Unable to go any further, they got out of their car and set out on foot towards a dimly lit farmhouse. When they reached the farmhouse, an elderly couple carrying a kerosene lamp met them at the door. Explaining their predicament, the young man asked: “Could you put us up till morning? A place on the floor or a few easy chairs would be fine.” Just then a few grains of rice slipped from the young lady’s hair and fell to the floor. The elderly couple glanced down at it and exchanged a knowing glance. “Why surely children” said the elderly woman. “We just happen to have a spare bedroom. You get your things from the car while my husband and I freshen it up a bit.” The next morning the newly-weds got up early and prepared to leave without disturbing the elderly couple. They dressed quietly, put a ten-dollar bill on the dresser, and tiptoed down the stairs. When they opened the door to the living room, they found the old couple asleep in chairs. They had given the newly-weds their only bedroom. The young man had his wife wait a minute while he tiptoed back upstairs and put another five dollars on the dresser. (Mark Link S. J. ) Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
25) Copper coin Gandhi received: Mahatma Gandhi went from city to city, village to village collecting funds for the Charkha Sangh (Hand Spinners Association). During one of his tours he addressed a meeting in Orissa. After his speech a poor old woman got up. She was bent with age, her hair was grey and her clothes were in tatters. The volunteers tried to stop her, but she fought her way to the place where Gandhiji was sitting. “I must see him,” she insisted and going up to Gandhiji touched his feet. Then from the folds of her sari she brought out a copper coin and placed it at his feet. Gandhiji picked up the copper coin and put it away carefully. The Charkha Sangh funds were under the charge of Jamnalal Bajaj. He asked Gandhiji for the coin but Gandhiji refused. “I keep cheques worth thousands of rupees for the Charkha Sangh,” Jamnalal Bajaj said laughingly “yet you won’t trust me with a copper coin.”– “This copper coin is worth much more than those thousands,” Gandhiji said. “If a man has several lakhs and he gives away a thousand or two, it doesn’t mean much. But this coin was perhaps all that the poor woman possessed. She gave me all she had. That was very generous of her. What a great sacrifice she made. That is why I value this copper coin more than a crore (10 million) of rupees.” Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
26) They like to parade around: St. John Vianney, the Cure of Ars in France, achieved such note as a spiritual leader in the first half of the nineteenth century that many worthy but unwise people wanted to honor him in some way. Their efforts brought the saint does not pleasure but agony. His own bishop was the first to try. Bishop Chalandon, newly installed in the Diocese of Belley, called at Ars one day while the Cure was hearing Confessions. St. John broke away from the Confessional to receive his superior. After a little speech, the bishop took out a hidden mozzetta (a silk shoulder cape trimmed with ermine) and put it on the priest’s shoulders. This was the garb of an honorary diocesan canon – something like the honor of Vatican Monsignor bestowed by the popes. The poor pastor was most embarrassed, and almost in tears. When the bishop left, Vianney quickly sold the mozzetta for fifty francs which he gave to the poor. Fr. Tony (https://frtonyshomilies.com/).
27. Sometime later, the Marquis de Castellane, civil official of the Ars district proposed that Emperor Napoleon III bestow on Father Vianney the cross of Knight of the Legion of Honor. “Is there a pension attached to that cross?” the priest asked when he was informed. “Does it mean money for my poor?” “no”, he was told, “it is just a distinction. So, the Cure asked the Emperor’s messenger to please tell his Imperial Majesty that he did not want the decoration. Of course, the Emperor conferred it anyhow. When St. John’s friends now urged him to have his portrait painted wearing the mozzetta of canon and the cross of the Legion, he brushed their request aside with a laugh. “I advise you to paint me with my mozzetta and cross of honor, and to write underneath: “Nothingness, pride!” — St. John Vianney, you see, was familiar with Jesus’ criticism of those Pharisees “who like to parade around in their robes and accept marks of respect in public.” (Mk 12:38 Today’s Gospel). And saint that he was, he particularly remembered Jesus’ criticism of those hypocrites who “preferred the praise of men to the glory of God.” The only reward that the good Cure wanted was a place in Heaven. (Father Robert F. McNamara).
